‘Free Healthcare’ Isn’t Free | Why Staying Alive Feels Like a Ransom Note
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‘Free Healthcare’ Isn’t Free | Why Staying Alive Feels Like a Ransom Note

We hear it all the time: “Healthcare should be free!” But here’s the thing—free doesn’t actually mean free. Someone’s paying for it. The question is… who?

In this episode, we’re breaking down the true cost of American healthcare—not just the ridiculous bills, but the broken system that makes those bills possible. From $98 insulin vials to $300,000 snake bites, we look at why staying alive here feels like a ransom note.

The answer isn’t just “tax the rich harder.” It’s about cutting the waste, stopping the scams, and fixing the system without killing the incentives that keep innovation and quality alive.

Get mad. Laugh anyway. Stay in the gray.


Chapters:

00:00 - Introduction: The US Healthcare Circus

00:44 - The High Cost of Healthcare

03:24 - Insurance: A Gamble

04:48 - Drug Prices: A Political Hot Potato

07:43 - Quality of Care: The Real Debate

13:16 - Real Stories, Real Struggles

16:24 - Potential Solutions and Final Thoughts


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I want to talk real people, real bills, and the absolute circus

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that is the US healthcare system.

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I'm not saying that it's cut and dry that we need to do this or

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we need to do this. There's a lot of Gray here, and

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that's what I do. So here's the deal.

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Healthcare is expensive in America because it's built to be

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that way. The solution isn't just free

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stuff for everyone. Free isn't free.

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It just means someone else is paying the bill.

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The question is, do you pay for it with your wallet or with your

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life? Let's talk about it.

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All right? Hey, guys, good to have you.

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It is April the 24th, 2025, and let's roll.

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Why does it cost a small fortune in the United States to stay

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alive? What do I mean by that?

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Well, today I'm asking you the question.

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Don't worry, I'm not going to bore you with a bunch of policy

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jargon. I want to talk real people, real

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bills, and the absolute circus that is the US healthcare

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system. I'm not saying that it's cut and

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dry that we need to do this or we need to do this.

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There's a lot of Gray here, and that's what I do.

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Before you start yelling, we just want free healthcare.

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Free, free, free. Everyone likes to say free.

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Well, it's not free. Somebody's paying for it.

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You're going to pay for it somewhere.

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The question is, do you pay for it with your wallet or with your

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life? Let's talk about it.

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All right, I'm going to start with a little mood booster.

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The numbers. This is on the surface what gets

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everybody kicking and screaming, and I'm going to give a few

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examples on why people do this, and it's just on the surface.

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You got to dig in a little bit, but when you hear this, you get

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frustrated. In the US, an average hospital

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stay for a day is about $2500. It's a good chunk of change.

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That's per day. Like I said, it's not a week or

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a month, it's a day. In Spain, 400.

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OK, still not inexpensive, but in Australia 765 going up, but

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still not that 2500. Again, there's more to it, but

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just on the surface you're going what's going on?

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I'm going to tell you how about another example.

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You need an MRI $1100 here, Netherlands closer to $350.00.

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It's quite a difference. How about ambulance ride?

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I, I had one of those once and the, the paramedics were honest

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with me. They were like, Are you sure you

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want? And you could probably get there

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on your own. And it's quite expensive.

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And I was like, no, I want to go, just take me.

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I don't want to deal with it. And, and it's about 900 to $3000

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depending on where you are. And that's just like you're,

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you're, it's like taking an Uber that's loud to a hospital.

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That's not even the procedures yet.

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Nothing's happened yet. And you're already down close

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between 903 grand. Do you want the lights and the

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sirens on? Apparently that's extra.

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They'll even probably crank up a Spotify playlist for you or

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extra. Are the numbers scary?

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Absolutely. But here's the plot twist.

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It's not just about the price. It's about how the game is

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played. That's what I want to talk

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about. It's not as simple as well,

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that's just too high. There's there's more to it than

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that. So combine insurance.

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That's the other issue. It's like a gamble.

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It's not even it's, you know, we have insurance that should

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handle things, but it just doesn't.

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You just kind of paint to spin the wheel one more time and

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that's that's kind of what it is.

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And individual coverage, I have around 7900 a year average

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family plan over $22. And yet 41% of working age

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adults still struggle with medical bills.

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Even with insurance. There's too much.

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It makes my head explode when I think about insurance and I

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actually have some experience in insurance.

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I'm trying not, I didn't want to give you that detail, but I

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actually am licensed, not medical and property and

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casualty. But I understand how the fine

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print works in the medical industry.

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My goodness. And it doesn't make things any

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easier. Deductibles, co-pays out of

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network nonsense in the magical surprise bills that you receive

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for what it feels more like a protection.

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That's just a big gamble, honestly.

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And who's responsible for this, this issue?

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And yes, it's fine print from the insurance company.

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Or is it the fact that medical caregivers can charge like

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they're selling yachts, not just check UPS.

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It's a big issue. Let's talk about drug prices.

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This is another big one. This is, this gets political,

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especially when you're talking about something like insulin,

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which is what I'm going to talk about.

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Insulin is life saving. It's necessary for many, for

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millions. A lot of people need it daily,

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every couple of hours. In Canada it's $12.00 a vial.

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In Germany it's $11.00 a vial. Here, $98 per vial.

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It's the same drug, the same companies, but different prices.

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Why the US doesn't negotiate drug prices federally?

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I didn't understand that. I didn't even know that.

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Instead, Big Pharma spends $300 million a year lobbying to

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Congress to keep it that way. That's something we need to look

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into. That's not healthcare, that's

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racketeering with paperwork. And but I'll go the opposite

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way. How about this?

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I'm going to give you both. How about the opposite?

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When I lived in the UK, I've used in my UK life before in

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examples, I had to get some medication.

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I had an anti anxiety, anti depression medication and they

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call them tablets. I like to make fun of them for

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that. But it was very, very cheap.

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And I was just shocked. But what it wasn't was that they

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still had to be shipped over because the UK didn't really use

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all these meds. They just didn't, they were

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like, we don't, we don't have that here.

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How am I supposed to get it for you?

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And they had it shipped and it was going to take a week and

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then it was, you know, they got it down to five days.

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It's but it's cheap. So what are you willing to what

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do you want to sacrifice? Are you willing to wait the time

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it takes? A lot of times you can't do it.

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That's not that's the point of this medication is that you take

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it daily. So what am I supposed to do?

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And that's the same situation that you deal with when

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wondering if something like ANHS, which is British Universal

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Healthcare is possible here. Those are the types of questions

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that need to be asked. It's not just simple.

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The system is built this way because this is how it's

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supposed to work. Fee for service means doctors

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and hospitals get paid per procedure, not per outcome.

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The PBMS, which are pharmacy benefit managers, they act like

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they're negotiating the prices, but really they're just kind of

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just the middle man skimming off the top.

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A lot of people don't realize who's doing the negotiating, and

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it's not the federal government. My understanding is that these

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people are not the federal government.

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Admin costs. People don't realize this. the

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US blows 8% of GDP just on paperwork.

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France and the UK were like 2 to 3%.

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So that's a lot of you can chop off right there with the admin

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work. It's a lot of people getting

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paid just to basically keep track of what they're going to

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charge you. So wipe it out.

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I'm looking at you, Doge. The quality of care.

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This is the thing that nobody wants to talk about.

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This is one of my biggest issues when people toss around the

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phrase free healthcare, universal healthcare.

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It's a great idea. Why would I not that people if

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you're not considerate, you don't care about you're not

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compassionate, you care about other people having Healthcare

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is a right. No, it's not.

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I think that I want the best quality care in the way that

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these other countries are set up.

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In my opinion, having experienced some of it and

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having hear hearing stories, which we'll get to, the quality

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would suffer. And that's my opinion.

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There are all these other things that we can talk about, but when

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we're talking about quality, that's what we have to ask.

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So the real question, would you rather have good care and pay a

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bill or average at best? And no bill, some of you might

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say average at best if you're just going in for a checkup, but

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it's those big incidents. And again, we'll talk about

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that. Me, bill, me bill me hard.

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Oh, if I'm bringing my kid in there and his life's on the

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line, my life or my way. Anybody on my plan, on my

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insurance plan or in general? Even if I not on the insurance

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plan, I want the best care. I don't want a bargain been

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brain surgeon. If something is needed, I want

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the one who's well paid, well trained, and caffeinated enough

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to keep their hands steady. This is where the free stuff

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argument falls short and not only with this, but in other

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things where people are yelling give me for free.

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Somebody's always paying for it. The incentives matter for our

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doctors and nurses, innovators. They don't work for hugs and

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gratitude and thank you for saving my life.

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Some of them might, but I guarantee if it's incentivized,

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you will have more people that are willing to go through the

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process, which is a lot of school and a lot of work and a

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lot of debt. That's where quality comes from.

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I once again, I've told the story.

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I'm going to tell it again very fast.

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I once had to hit up the ER and when I lived in the UK, those of

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you that know me know where and those of you that don't maybe

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heard me talk about it before. But the great people light, but

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the weight and the quality had a lot left to be desired.

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I needed to have a book or something entertained me while I

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waited with chest pains. Fortunately ended up being a

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form of GERD over there. They call it gourd because of

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the O at the beginning of esophagus.

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In their version of English. It's basically a reflux on crack

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and but I didn't know that. And if it was something serious,

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were they just willing to let me die in the chair, like because

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I'm waiting in line because other people were walking into

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this hospital with a sprained ankle or they stubbed their

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fucking toe. But hey, it's free, so let's

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just all go clutter the emergency rooms and clutter the

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doctor's offices. And the people that need the

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help are unable to. That's what I try to get across

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to people that want this universal healthcare.

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Oh, but but Great Britain does it.

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But I don't like it. And a lot of people wouldn't

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either if it was here and they'd have something else to bitch

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about. But I finally got in.

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Back to my story and I was they gave me all sorts of pain

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medication which really jacked me up.

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It's fun for a while until they left me in a renovated wing with

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like construction everywhere and no other people in this bed for

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about 5 hours. I didn't know what was going on.

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Nobody swung by. I think I saw two people walk by

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and they were they were worker working on the facilities.

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They weren't even doctors or nurses or anybody.

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And I didn't know what was going on.

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Eventually, they wheeled me up to the renal ward.

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I had nothing wrong with my kidneys.

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And I had to sit there with three people on dialysis and

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listen to to how the horrible experience they were going

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through. And I felt, I felt guilty, like

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I just had some chest pains. And I mean, I still didn't know

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what was happening. But you know, I'm having to

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listen to an elderly man tell his family he doesn't want to

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live anymore. And it was quite difficult

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because they didn't have any room in the hospital.

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So I'm tossed up there and I'm getting completely different

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treatment. It just was chaotic is a good

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word to put it. I didn't see a doctor for three

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days. I had a nurse.

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I had a bunch of nurses as their shifts were ending, feed me,

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drug me up and say, we'll get to you.

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And they took my blood every day.

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No one told me what was going on.

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I'm telling you the care is not what you want it to be.

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I'm not bashing the NHS. I'm not bashing the UK, although

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they have their issues right now.

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I'm just telling you that you pay what for what you you get

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what you pay for or don't pay for.

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And that's the case. And I'm just telling you be be

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careful what you ask for. Meanwhile, let's not forget

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about our neighbors to the north.

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I know we have some friction with them right now, but they're

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Canadians that routinely have to cross the border of the US for

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treatment. There was a story of a woman who

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had to cross over to the United States for a cancer procedure.

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Cancer's not something to fuck around with.

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They told her she couldn't get it out in Canada for three

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weeks. Cancer can spread.

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She was devastated. And she did a whole this whole

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video interview about how she drove in, got the procedure that

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day in the United States. Yes, she had a bill, but it

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wasn't as high as what people thought.

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And it's your life deal with the bill later that hit home that's

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something to think about So here's some real stories it's

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not theoretical we'll talk about Sarah 28 grad student she had

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$11 emergency appendectomy. It's quite a bit chopped that

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thing right up. James father of two crowdfunding

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$50 for cancer care. Wow, crowdfunding GoFundMe is

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now part of the American healthcare system and that

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sucks. So I'm, I'm turning the corner

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here and I'm telling you that these big tragic type events,

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things that happen in your life that put you in there and these

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bills, they can be addressed, but it's not the way that you

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think it should be, which is this universal health care that

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that is mirroring other countries.

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I keep hearing the other country thing and it's just, man, I'm

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giving you both sides. I'm giving you the countries.

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I'm telling you what they're doing and I'm telling you why

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people think it works. But I'm also going to give you

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the other side, which is kind of where I'm hanging out.

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There's a family called the Feffers and you probably maybe

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heard of this in there in San Diego.

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Their toddler was bitten by a rattlesnake and the final bill

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was almost $300. The anti venom alone was

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$213. Why?

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Well, let me give you a quick lesson here.

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The anti venom comes from donor animals and mostly are horses

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and they have to inject them with the snake venom.

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Sounds like something out of medieval texts, but here we are.

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And because of that is the reason they're claiming this

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anti venom cost so much. There's got to be something in

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that case that helps in I mean that's an, I mean that's an

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extreme case, not people aren't rolling into the ERS every day

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with snake bites and they're going to die.

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These types of things. If it's going to cost $300,

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we need to do something as a country, as a government.

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There's got to be a way to help these types of cases.

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Elizabeth Moreno $18 for year end tests.

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It's a tricky headline because it's not just one test.

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It was a A1 sample tested for many things and mostly were drug

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tests for like every drug known to man because of chronic back

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pain. It's that's, that's surprise

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billing at its finest right there.

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But you get the got the bill. They basically said these things

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and they broke it down. These different tests cost us

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much and it added up to that. She ended up only having to pay

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about 7200, which is still a lot, but they got it down.

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So some of these are a little bit misleading.

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However, you get that bill and you don't look at it and you're

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just like, you know, pay it. I mean, this is where we are as

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people are being taken advantage of, but it's not by who you

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think it is. This is the type of stuff that

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needs fixing. That's what I'm saying.

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It's not not subsidizing, you know, doctor visits for folks

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who only show up when it's too late.

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You know, these types of basic procedures aren't the problem.

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It's the large ones that can get you into some heavy, heavy debt.

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And if you can't, you know, do a $20 co-pay for for medication,

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then I don't have to tell you, maybe take an extra job or

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something because you should be able to handle that and someone

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else shouldn't have to pay for it.

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Snake bites $200 or $300.

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Yeah, maybe we can chip in and see what we can do to help.

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And then again, real quick, what, what other countries do?

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Germany? I'm just, I don't agree with it,

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but I'm going to tell you anyway.

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Germany negotiates their drug prices.

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OK, We need to do that. I agree.

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No more of this middle man bullshit with negotiations.

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We need to be strict. EU KS, NHS, I've spoken about

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that a couple times. They only go through taxes.

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Well, some people feel like our taxes should go there.

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I'll get to that in a second. But to go after more taxes and

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to tax the wealthy is not the way to do it.

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Japan sets fixed prices for every service and that works for

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them. They all keep their admin costs

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low. This is huge.

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I said it earlier, that's a lot of money.

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It works there for keeping these low.

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They don't need that many admin and all that work.

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The question is, can it work here?

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All these things without sacrificing the quality?

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Can we do smart reforms like negotiating prices and cutting

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up a middle men like I just said without turning it into another

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tax happy socialist playground? And you guys hate when I use the

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word socialism. We'll get to that in a second.

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But let's be honest, jacking up taxes on people who actually

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create jobs isn't really a winning strategy.

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So this all leads to this. Can it work here?

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The real Gray area had to do it. Here's my problem with the

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entire debate. Anytime you suggest fixing drug

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prices or cutting administration bloat, someone screams

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socialism. OK, I do it.

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I I know people do it consistently.

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But negotiating the drug prices, That's not socialism, that's

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common sense. Lowering the admin fees, common

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sense. Taxing the wealthy into oblivion

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to fund it. That is socialism and it's dumb.

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You need the wealthy. I've said it before, disagree

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with me all you want, you're wrong.

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You need innovation, you need people.

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Incentivize to build great hospitals, cutting edge

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machines, and yes, make a profit.

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So instead of bankrupting the people who build the system, why

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not cut the dumb spending elsewhere?

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What DOGE is doing. We don't need to spend

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$2 for Moroccan pottery classes.

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We don't need to spend $300 for DEI bird watching

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initiatives. Try not to laugh.

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I know that $300 is not a lot in the big scheme, but there

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are a lot of these and they all add up and some of them aren't

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in the 10s to 20 million range in billions. $700 for an

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LGBTQ musical production in Ireland.

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What the fuck is that? What are all these things?

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Could it be that their code for what's happening in the old

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government and in the the establishment, which is

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laundering? I can't imagine these are real

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things, but God, they that's that's what they are.

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If you take that money and you distribute it the right way

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without frivolously spending it, perhaps we could put money into

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something like universal healthcare and do it the right

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way and still incentivize and not lose the quality.

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It seems so simple to me. Priorities, people.

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The CBO says negotiating Medicare drug prices alone could

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save $456 billion / 10 years. Let's start there.

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I'm all up for it. So here's the deal.

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Healthcare is expensive in America because it's built to be

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that way. The solution isn't just free

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stuff for everyone. Free isn't free.

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It just means someone else is paying the bill.

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The fix? You kill the scammy middle men.

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Negotiate prices. Incentivize the people who

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actually save the lives and stop wasting billions on nonsense.

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It seems simple. Why haven't the people in charge

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figured it out yet? I'm available if you want to

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consult with me. My hourly fees are fairly low.

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Thanks for hanging out. This is a topic that I get

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yelled at a lot for it by by a lot of the people screaming for

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free stuff. They don't like that I've got

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other ideas that don't involve taxing the hell out of people

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and having someone else pay for it, which is what screaming for

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free stuff really is. The other side, you know, they a

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lot of people I don't agree with on that side either, where they

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say, hey, everyone's responsible for themselves, so, you know,

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fuck them. It's a little harsh too.

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There are things here that we can help all of us with, and I

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think we should do them. If it made you think, if this

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episode made you think, if it pissed you off, if it, God

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forbid, made you chuckle a little bit at parts, share it

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with someone who might be interested in the subject.

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Again, it's a broad a broad analysis of of the US healthcare

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system. And in my own style, I know

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there are people that dive into it a lot deeper, but a lot of

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people don't have time for the interest to dive that deep into

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it. So hopefully this helped you.

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