Meg and Antwan return to the panel, and things get spicy fast. From country music controversies and unexpected insights on being gay to the social chaos of Gen Z dating and shocking family revelations — this episode is a rollercoaster. We also unpack the backlash surrounding Barbie and Oppenheimer, question gender roles, and share a listener email that kicks off a wave of heated opinions and hilarious reactions. This one has laughs, real talk, and some serious plot twists.
🎤 Jason Aldean, Miranda Lambert & racial controversy
🏳️🌈 Trey’s honest questions about gay identity
🎀 Barbie backlash + gender debates
💣 Oppenheimer and American guilt
📱 Gen Z dating apps and wild stories
🧬 Half-siblings married 10 years — with kids — before finding out
😬 Vasectomy lies, hospital lawsuits, and a Reddit rabbit hole
🧠 Awareness of Self-Awareness: Meg reads ridiculous stories
📩 Plus, a listener email that kicks off the chaos
Chapters:
00:00 – Intro
02:12 – Listener Email (Meg & Antwan Edition)
13:08 – Jason Aldean, Miranda Lambert & Racial Discourse
53:42 – Trey’s Questions on Being Gay
1:04:20 – Barbie Controversy & Gender Roles
1:14:11 – Oppenheimer & Nuclear Reflections
1:16:35 – Gen Z Dating App Chaos
1:30:17 – Awareness of Self-Awareness: Reddit Tales
1:43:55 – Half-Sibling Marriage & Vasectomy Lawsuit
1:56:10 – Closing Thoughts
🔥 Buckle up. This one hits every nerve.
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This is where it's at. Government officials
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Ryan, Ryan, Ryan. How's it going, man?
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It's going really good. Trey, how are you?
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Before we go any further, I was thinking about this.
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I don't know if Allison has jumped on the ball with this,
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but we need a slogan for our assisted suicide service.
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But. That's right.
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We did agree to do that, didn't we?
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Well, I went in and took ownership of it.
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So here's our new slogan. Okay.
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Stay in the Gray brings the ass to help you pass.
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Does that work out? It brings the ass.
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Yeah, system. Or you're bringing somebody out
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of it. Service ass say you.
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Didn't I? Didn't even Wow, that helps you
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pass. So wow, we bring that ass to
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help you pass. You're in the wrong.
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You're in the wrong profession. You need to be in advertising.
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See, Allison didn't think of that shit.
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No Allison's been moving. She's in a new house or some
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family and baby blah blah blah. Yeah.
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Anyway, she's. Lacking so well, good.
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I think that's tshirt. Tshirt material.
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Tshirt material, Business cards. It's getting printed hashtag
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hashtag in it. Of course.
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Of course we could ask our lovely panel here.
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Guess what? Well, you already know they're
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sitting right here, but we have the lovely Meg and Antoine back
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in the studio. Yeah, we do.
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Say hi guys. Hey, y'all, yay.
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Can you hear my enthusiasm? No.
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In all seriousness, we're so excited to have you guys back.
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And it's it's, I feel like we say it's been a long time
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coming, but it's only been a few weeks.
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But we had to get it in. And I'm going to go ahead and
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wish Meg the best now because she's about to leave us.
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And yeah, that's all the. I mean, yeah, as long as
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Antoine's here. No, we're going to.
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We plan to have Antoine back. But.
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And Meg, when she's in town, she might come back.
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Meg can be remote too. Yeah, So yeah.
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Oh, that's true. Yeah.
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Wait, I'm sorry. This is an Amish show.
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We don't know how to use technology very well.
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But no, that's true, Trey. That's a good point.
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You're welcome. So let me lower this here.
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Guess what, Trey. Antoine.
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Meg. Yes, what?
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After you guys left last time, I received a bunch of emails about
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you guys. Did you know that?
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No, I didn't know that you. Shouldn't know that either.
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It's a surprise to me. Well, I'm gonna share them
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tonight because. I don't know how I feel.
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I feel just when I felt good, then I feel bad and then I feel
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like an idiot. And then, you know, Antoine for
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the most part was he was loved. He was adored, you would say.
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I'm not surprised. Loved to hear it.
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By our fans. In fact, I think some of them
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actually said you guys shut up and bring Twain on.
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So here I'll just read a few. This one's from Mike.
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Having Antoine and Meghan was a great idea, guys.
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It was super enjoyable to hear differing perspectives.
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Alright, that's good, Mike. Thank you.
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Slay. Slay, Trey and I have now decide
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we are going to start saying Slay.
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I don't know if I know how. To what?
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Yeah, what's the context again? Just if something is cool.
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Whoopi. It can okay.
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So instead of like yay, we slay. Yeah, it's like that was a super
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slay by Mike. I'm not sure I know when I would
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use Whoopi, it's. Like, I don't know why that's
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the word I. Chose if you propose to someone
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and they say yes, my God slay. Thing that's so slow or if she
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looks really somebody looks really good.
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You're like, my God, she's slaying.
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Slaying Interesting Trey we slay.
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All the time. Yeah, we do.
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The second one is Antoine sat there and took Trey and Ryan's
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bullshit like a champ. He's a real man of the group
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that was Maria. Can't argue that Maria thinks
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you are the real man of this group.
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Maria, I love you. You're real for that.
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Next Trey and Antoine will be great together.
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They mean like in a relationship, I think.
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Or, but it goes on. We'll branch off with our own
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podcast, this. Is by this is by Phillip, it
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said. Who would be on bottom though?
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I don't know. They're so uncomfortable right
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now, Phillip. Yeah.
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What are we going to do? Bump purse.
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That's. Awesome purses.
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And then there's a few more. Here there's a few more.
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Trey seems gay purses. Trey seems gayer than ever.
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Trey should just take the paint from his toenails and paint his
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vagina. It is apparent that Trey loves
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dark meat. Hello.
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Trey seemed awfully quiet during the Grinder talk.
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I've seen Trey on Grinder. Okay okay wow.
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All these go on and on. So I'm just.
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Gonna cut those off. I also saw Trey on Grinder, but
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he actually hit me up and was like, Antoine.
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Remember Me? Yeah, that one time.
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And I was like, who? Are you?
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I don't know if you swipe, but I'm sure Antoine swiped left I
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would imagine. The next one is simple.
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Ryan needs to shut the fuck up. Oh, I think that was me this.
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Was Oh well, it says Steven. But I can.
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That's my brother's. That's right.
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Maybe he maybe he told him to do it Five.
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It's obvious Ryan needs attention in the worst way.
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Let his wife know, Please. This was from Lindsay, so fuck
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you Lindsay. And kudos to Antoine and Meg for
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not strangling Ryan every time, he interrupted.
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That was from a man named Jamal, so you know.
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OK, Jamal, I'm sorry. I'll try.
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So we're not to interrupt anymore.
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People who give Ryan a hard time can shut the fuck up.
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Oh, all right. He does a great job keeping
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control and focus for the show. Is that your mom?
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It's hard to be a leader. It's hard to be a leader.
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And Ryan does it well. Signed, Anonymous.
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So, yeah, your mom. Well, Mama Ryan.
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Has an e-mail anonymous. I don't know if my mom knows how
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to. Well, you know, I mean, the
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e-mail address doesn't have a name in it, the.
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E-mail is like anonymous. Ryan, 123.
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My baby boy. 1/2. 3@gmail.com I birthed with
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ryan.just@gmail.com. Ryan's mom, 23, I choose.
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Ryan has a cute tushy and. It was a coincidence that it was
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her initials at the end. Yeah, whatever.
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Oh my gosh. The next one is Antoine, that
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old white Hick that you were talking about.
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Is that me? Didn't know what?
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Didn't know what he had. I will take you to Fort Worth
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instead and take care of business.
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There we go. Signed off bill.
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Steak dinner bill. Bill.
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Well, tell Bill that I may be interested.
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I don't know. Hello.
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All right, Bill, if you hear this free on Sunday, Monday,
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I'll be elsewhere. What is the Fort Worth deal?
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Why? I mean, why did he key in on
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that? That was a steak dinner from the
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old Britney and. So he wants you don't remember
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anyone since. Yeah, I do, but I don't
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remember. Antoine.
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I don't see you with a bill, though.
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Yeah, Antoine, I see you with like a Lance.
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Actually I can't go there cuz. That's work related.
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Isn't Bill short for William? I could see the William.
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No, that's my middle name. No, I see a Lance.
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No. You don't see a William?
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Trey seems very defensive. Well, Lance is too.
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I want. So my ideal man is from Texas.
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Either from like the blue collar city.
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JJ knows how to get, yeah, him exactly.
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Right. Yeah, Meg would be good with
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Trey. Would she consider?
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No. She has a boyfriend.
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This was from Katie, so I don't know if anybody knows it.
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Katie, you know, I just realized no one asked anything about me
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hooking up with anybody, So that's messed up.
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That's good. Right.
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Well, cuz you're married. Well, yes, Okay, I'm gonna say
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that's the reason. Not that no one wants to be with
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me. Here's a new name for the show.
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A blay, a bitch and two honkies. A.
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What is that? Mean a what?
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A blade Blay. Blay.
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Have you ever heard of a blay? No.
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A black gay? Yeah, that's must be what I've
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heard a blatian. I thought that might be it could
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be a slur, but I'm not gonna look.
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At it it is that actually. Yeah, that's a slur.
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I guess they may. Wait, what was it?
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Say it again. Blay like a black.
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Know what's next? A bitch.
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I'm assuming that's. Trey, does that mean?
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You know, in two honkies, that's a slur too?
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I'm so confused. This was anonymous.
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This is bullshit. Let's just.
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Move on if. That was also his mom.
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Yeah, saying Rhino bring cookies.
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I think someone thought they were being clever, but they just
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insulted all of us at once. So that's kind of impressive,
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actually. Right.
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All right, let's move on. I don't believe that this one
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this is a good one. I don't believe Megan.
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Antoine. I've never hooked up.
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Hello. It's obvious that Meg wants to
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convert him. This is signed Jake My.
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Gosh, I see what you did there. Yeah.
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Do you know any Jakes? Let's move on.
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I. Can say I do?
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Let's move my boyfriend. I know, Jake.
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Jake, Jake, we wrote hello. That one was a fake e-mail.
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Jake. I was just plain.
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And the last one is we love Antoine.
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He should be on the show as much as possible.
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Signed. Jeffrey Raymond.
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Who's Jeffrey Raymond? Gotcha.
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That makes sense, Yeah. Yes, we all know.
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I disagree with that. We all know and love this man.
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And he thinks Antoine will be a great edition.
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So there's the e-mail for the evening.
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I thought that was a Little Mix of everything.
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Yeah, that's some crazy you. Can't hear it, but I'm clapping
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guys. Thank you for all the love.
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I love you too guys. Yeah, I mean, there was not a
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negative about you. Yeah, I mean, there wasn't
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really negative about you, except you were called a bitch.
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Well, you were called a Blay, whatever the hell that is.
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Yeah, maybe that wasn't been the Blay.
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By the way, that was a legit e-mail, though.
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Right. I could have been the bitch.
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What if I was the bitch and Ryan was the black gay?
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I could be the boy. What's a honky?
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I do sound like well. What is a Honky?
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So slang for a white guy is that.
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True. Really.
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It's like honk. What is that like?
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So you guys didn't know what Honky was when I said that name?
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Really. But it was important, cuz it
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wasn't. A back I know, like.
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I know, I know. You didn't care after a bitch.
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You were like. Who I know the H word for
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Country people I know buckle Bunny.
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I know what's the H word buckle Bunny.
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Hick. What's a buckle bun?
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It's not bad. Antoine doesn't like slurs at
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all. Yeah, is Hick A slur?
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I don't hillbilly. I don't want to.
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Say something that's perceived as a slur.
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I think it called a slur back cuz I think it's OK.
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So or like 20 years from now. Well, and they're like, remember
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when Antoine said that on that podcast?
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Yeah. But I've never heard anybody get
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honestly 20. Times per Hick.
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I'm not gonna remember shit so. Trey and I are gonna be in our
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Gen. X retirement home.
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Yeah, that we slobbering with diapers on, Yeah.
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They might have missed that episode, Trey.
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Yeah, but we'll be slobbering, listening to grunge music from
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the 90s. Yeah, in some 80s.
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Some 90s. Rap too.
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Yeah. Hey, corn is not grunge.
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I love corn. That's my favorite Dad also
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likes corn. That's weird.
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Hey, easy okay. Wait, my dad?
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I thought we were just talking about the vegetables.
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So. Wow.
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Gen. Z's on.
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TikTok, you can't say the actual P word, so they just say corn
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instead. Really.
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Yeah, that's slang for the P word.
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Yeah, no, Like for PORN, they say.
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You can say that now we're not on TikTok.
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I'm not going to say that. Why do you mean?
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Porn. Good question.
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PORNI came from Trey says porn 16 times a day.
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Yeah, in some capacity. Hell, I'm watching it right now.
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I guess sorry. And I'm going to say, guys, the
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guy getting pounded looks a lot like me, so I don't know what
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that Hello. I don't know.
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No way. Didn't you say the proper
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terminology was railed in your Yeah railed.
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Yeah, I I still can't believe that I was like bang and you
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guys are like, no, no, it's. Rail.
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I love the word rail porked. My God, Antoine.
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That was back in the day. Yeah.
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I loved the one. That was classic, though.
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Yeah, that was on, like National Lampoon's European Vacation.
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That doesn't flow off the tongue.
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I wanna. Pork you?
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Yeah, he's gonna pork her. Dad.
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Do you remember that? Yeah, that doesn't flow off the
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tongue. Didn't flow off the tongue,
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literally. All right.
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So let's move forward and talk a little.
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Jason Aldean. Who?
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I don't know who that is. I don't either.
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Jason Aldean. I'm Joe.
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If you guys are serious, I can read his biography.
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No, I think we're on the show. Okay mind you for you people
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watching at home who are like. Assuming I don't love country, I
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do. So I know exactly.
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That's right. You did tell us that you like
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You really do like country. I am so a fan of country.
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And C Trey and I both don't like country We.
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Blare country in the cars. So this is good.
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So it's. Antoine Jason Aldean, though
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he's not that good. No, he's never on the list.
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Well, I like that you started with a.
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It's always women. Usually I'll be.
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You let our listeners know straight up like no matter what.
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My opinion on this is, this is. This isn't from someone who's
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just anti country like I love. Miranda Lambert, Eric Church.
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Oh my gosh. I love Ray Lynn, and I'm so
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sorry. She's my.
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She's my insurrection, Barbie. About Yeah, I What's the most
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old school artists that you like?
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Dolly Parton. OK.
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Didn't Miranda Lambert? Antoine, you said you liked her.
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Didn't she have a little? Fact of the issue.
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My Queen's crown slipped a bit that night.
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OK, so you disagree with her getting on those ladies?
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For anybody that doesn't know, apparently two women in the
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front row of her concert were taking selfies and Miranda
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Lambert was really upset. She said a lot of things.
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Recently that I'm gonna give you some contact.
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Please do, That's why I. I'm saying what she did was
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wrong, but hear me out. She was performing a very
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emotional song to her. And so she made what?
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Was it called Don't Take Selfies.
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Yes, it's called Tin Man. It's about her divorce from that
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chocolate I of. I mean Blake Shelton.
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Anyway, so you're not a Blake. Shelton.
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Fan I forgot they were married. Yeah, that was that Blake
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Shelton she was talking about. Was he an asshole or what?
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Well, he loved her for Gwen Stefani and now I can't listen
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to Gwen Stefani and. Well, I think she Gwen Stefani's
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pretty. I like Winstevani, let's just
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say. That me too.
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But I just wish that she wasn't an involuntary homewrecker.
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Like it's not her fault that happened, but like.
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Right. Anyway, the heart once what?
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The heart. Did she get with Blake Shelton
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when he was still with Miranda? I think it was actually after to
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be honest about I don't know, but.
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OK, either way, you're still bitter about the separation.
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I'm and you gonna go on Miranda's side?
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Oh yeah, OK, Always. Fair enough.
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She could run someone over like people who are like.
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Donald Trump can run someone on Capitol Hill and I.
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More to mask me with Mirena when Antoine does white redneck, I
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know. I know.
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We'll just do a whole bit each show, All right?
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We're gonna do Antoine's white, white, redneck bit.
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But anyway, continue. So you thought it was an
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emotional song and she didn't? Okay.
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Yeah, and so she should not have done that.
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But she did it and she's gonna move on.
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But you know, what I will say though, is if a man did that, we
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would not be hearing all this outrage about it.
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You think of like Blake Shelton. They're like, Oh my God, Blake,
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you're such a strong man. That's interesting.
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You put them in your. So you think that you think if
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we won't use Blake Shelton, cuz of the situation anybody.
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So she was being caddy. I'm gonna just say, but I if you
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ask a lot of women, if they're like Miranda Lambert, her her
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music, they're gonna say no, I don't know.
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I just. You like it?
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Yeah, but like a lot of women are against her for some reason.
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Innately. I don't know.
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I don't know why, but Meg. I pulled a lot.
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So I like Miranda Lambert. Meg's a real woman.
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I love her. That's where we're friends.
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But a lot of them don't like her.
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I don't know why but even before this.
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And we love country music. Well, that's great.
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That's great. Who are we talking about again?
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Yeah. That's great.
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Well, no. I wanted to ask him.
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He said he liked Miranda Lambert.
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I had heard that story. I didn't know the context.
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Of that I did, I couldn't. Save her there.
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I had to pay her. On the well and the two women
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were like, they were women. Women they were, they weren't
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like girls. There was.
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They were older women. Like, what the fuck?
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I'm sorry. We're at a cool show we paid a
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shit load of money for. Ghost front row seats.
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And guess what? We're going to take a few
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selfies. And also what I don't agree with
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is people like going to the concerts now and like trying to
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take a selfie to get her to, you know?
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You know, outrage. Well, sure, yeah.
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Oh, that's that's the thing now. Now that's why I don't think.
00:17:24
That's he train. I think that's funny, yeah.
00:17:28
Miranda, are you gonna yell? Are you gonna yell?
00:17:30
Yell. Yeah.
00:17:32
Yeah. Antoine's staring at us now.
00:17:34
He's not happy. We love Miranda Lambert.
00:17:37
I could not name a single song, but I'm assuming they're pretty
00:17:39
good. White liar, kerosene, gunpowder,
00:17:43
and lead. White liars.
00:17:44
Mama's broken heart. Wow.
00:17:45
She sounds like something really good.
00:17:47
She sounds happy. What about my bangs?
00:17:51
That's. From the song with some rusty
00:17:53
kitchen scissors. I screamed his name until the
00:17:56
neighbors called the cops. Yeah, that sounds like a.
00:17:58
Funny thing, my mom was broken heart.
00:17:59
Yeah, sounds like Trace Friday night last week.
00:18:02
Yeah. All right.
00:18:03
Well, let's talk about Jason Aldean.
00:18:05
Much to say. Okay, I know you do.
00:18:07
You're shaking over there and so tonight.
00:18:10
So I'm going to take the What was your fucking name?
00:18:12
This bitch that. I think it was Jamal.
00:18:14
It was Jamal. Thought it was Lindsay.
00:18:16
Well, there were like 5. Of them, Jamal.
00:18:18
Lindsay So. Similar.
00:18:20
They all said Ryan. So I'm going to let you guys.
00:18:23
I want you guys to go and I'm going to just kind of, if I have
00:18:26
a, if I have a question I need to ask, I'm going to jump in.
00:18:29
But I'm going to do my best to let you go because Trey and I
00:18:32
did this. We already talked about this on
00:18:34
the last show. If you haven't seen it, go check
00:18:36
it out. Episode 30.
00:18:38
And so I want to listen and then we'll talk further cuz I have
00:18:40
some questions for you guys. So what do you think about this
00:18:44
song? I mean, what's going on?
00:18:45
Well, I'll just preface this with guys.
00:18:49
I was never like a Jason Aldean stand, but Dirt Rd. is a great
00:18:53
song, so I thought nothing of it.
00:18:55
And then I heard the song. OK, I didn't know what the song
00:18:58
until the music video came out a couple Fridays ago.
00:19:01
And the song in and of itself it's questionable but cannot be
00:19:05
dubbed inherently racist because we have no proof of like his
00:19:08
state of mind when he was writing it, what he's true
00:19:10
intense word. But I do think the music video
00:19:14
solidifies that it is kind of racially charged.
00:19:18
And I'll start with the biggest one, the reference of the
00:19:21
courthouse used in Moore County, Columbia, TN.
00:19:25
Has been. It's like historically known to
00:19:28
be like a lynching site of this black.
00:19:30
Man, we mentioned that too. Yeah.
00:19:32
Where is Jason Aldean from Macon, GA?
00:19:35
What is the significance? Of so he's not even from there.
00:19:38
Yeah, so I'm like Jason. Why he?
00:19:40
Has no ties. Are you sure?
00:19:41
I mean, I'm pretty sure he lives in Tennessee, but.
00:19:44
But it's a weird like he didn't. So what made him choose that
00:19:47
spot? Right.
00:19:48
If you're gonna choose a spot that's not your hometown.
00:19:50
So he's not. He's not.
00:19:51
Affiliated with that town. We don't, I mean.
00:19:53
He could live there, but still it's kind of weird and I feel
00:19:56
like he wouldn't live in like a small town, probably listen like
00:19:58
outside of. Knoxville probably got more than
00:20:00
one house, but. Natural mansion up in the hills.
00:20:03
It's one thing to pick like I feel like a courthouse that is
00:20:06
in your small city or like your small town.
00:20:11
That you actually live in and it's still a courthouse that's
00:20:13
up and running, then you're like, hey, like the courthouse
00:20:15
has done a lot of things. Even if it has a bad pass, it's
00:20:17
still running. It was up and running.
00:20:18
It is, but not in his town. It's weird to pick a courthouse
00:20:23
that has significant history like that.
00:20:26
That was. It's not even in his own and
00:20:27
it's not in his town. I mean, we should back check
00:20:29
whether he has significant ties to it, but it just seems weird
00:20:34
for him to. It seemed odd, it seemed odd,
00:20:37
right? Okay.
00:20:38
And that seemed to be a common, the common concern of everybody
00:20:42
thinking this might have some racial.
00:20:44
Yeah, and Google has says that Jason Alding has lived in Macon,
00:20:48
GA and Nashville and Homestead, wherever that is.
00:20:50
I don't know where Homestead is. It's just I feel like that's not
00:20:56
somebody's not doing their research then yeah, cuz if
00:20:58
you're gonna pick a site and it's not in your hometown so it
00:21:01
doesn't have, it couldn't possibly be looked at as like
00:21:04
any other significance. Then it kind of looks like
00:21:07
you're picking somebody's setting him up.
00:21:09
We talked about that, Trey. I mean, I mentioned that I
00:21:11
thought that he just put himself in a really stupid bad
00:21:14
situation, cuz he didn't write. He was not aware.
00:21:18
He didn't write the song, right? No, he didn't write the song.
00:21:20
Sure, he didn't choose what his music would look like.
00:21:24
Somebody. How do you not verify this
00:21:26
stuff? But that's the point.
00:21:27
You're right guys, it gets worse.
00:21:29
In the video, they use a series of newspaper clippings if you
00:21:33
zoom in. One of them is from.
00:21:36
A previously known sun downtown and the article is talking about
00:21:41
how this guy got chased out of the town for exposing the town
00:21:44
for being a sun downtown. A what town?
00:21:47
A sun. Downtown.
00:21:48
What's a sun downtown? Black people shouldn't be there
00:21:50
after dark. Yeah, no shit.
00:21:51
I've never heard that before. Yes.
00:21:53
And so I was like someone. There are some of those towns in
00:21:56
the states nowadays for. Actually, the city I grew up in
00:21:59
was very much like that from what I've heard.
00:22:01
There's a website you can look up all the sun.
00:22:03
Technically, Highland Park is Highland Park is a sun downtown.
00:22:07
First black person to move into Highland Park was 2011.
00:22:10
Well, but. It's.
00:22:11
Not like they're not. Sun goes down and they're gonna.
00:22:13
Yeah, I think a lot of sun downtowns now are probably not
00:22:16
like, There's probably few that are.
00:22:17
Like if you're actually black thereafter they're gonna kill
00:22:20
you. But yeah, used to mean that.
00:22:22
And then maybe they'll still kind of.
00:22:26
That's not a nice place to be. Well, let me ask you, is there a
00:22:29
Would it be wrong on me to suggest that there's actually
00:22:33
sun downtowns for white people now in this country?
00:22:37
No. Cuz I don't think they're
00:22:38
racially just because you're white.
00:22:40
They're you don't think so? They're anywhere in this
00:22:41
country. I would say.
00:22:43
I mean, I'm gonna just say I don't think black people are
00:22:46
killing white people after dark. Maybe, but I'm saying if you
00:22:49
were in the I was in a wrong place at the wrong time kind of
00:22:52
deal and they look at. I would think it'd be more like
00:22:54
I'm gonna kill you. You're not to maybe rob you or
00:22:56
something, but I don't think it's like you're a white guy.
00:22:58
I'm gonna kill you. Well, that's OK, as long as
00:23:00
they're killing me. Just no.
00:23:01
But that's then. It's not based on race.
00:23:02
Yeah, it's just not collection, Okay.
00:23:05
Fair enough. Like sundown towns are based on
00:23:06
like you are black. I'm gonna kill you.
00:23:07
I'm gonna let you guys talk, but I think that there may be some,
00:23:12
there may be some areas where it's there's stories out there
00:23:15
that talk about nowadays where people are kind of not
00:23:18
revolting, but they're saying, hey, what are you doing here,
00:23:21
crack or whatever. And I don't know, I haven't
00:23:24
experienced it, but just something to think about.
00:23:27
Yeah, I mean, we can't. Nothing compared.
00:23:29
Nothing compared to true sundown.
00:23:31
Yeah, I'm not trying to say that at.
00:23:32
All there's like over like 5 content sundown towns.
00:23:36
Still active. No, not active but like.
00:23:38
No. Consider there were.
00:23:40
Still practicing until practicing towns.
00:23:43
Also, the other thing to note on this website is that it is, it's
00:23:46
kind of like Wikipedia and how you can like people can
00:23:49
manipulate facts, type in and send things in, but a lot of
00:23:52
them are like newspaper clippings and things like that,
00:23:54
and that's what you saw in the video.
00:23:56
No, there's something else. I'm sorry, I'm.
00:23:59
Talking about the website that you can check, you can check if
00:24:01
your city is a sun downtown, Cool.
00:24:03
I just meant you were talking about some clippings in the
00:24:05
video. Yeah.
00:24:07
He was, yes. And that's yeah, because they
00:24:09
were like about an article. So there was this guy and I
00:24:12
forget the town, but like a newspaper.
00:24:15
And he was kind of exposing, like the towns are kind of
00:24:18
what's speaking down upon the towns, like kind of racist
00:24:22
tendencies and like Sundown Town tendencies.
00:24:25
And they try to chase him out of town because they didn't think
00:24:27
that it was appropriate to be exposing that about them.
00:24:30
But that was like a clipping that was in the video, in the
00:24:32
video and then also, and that's 100% that can't be argued, that
00:24:36
can be like you can. Go trace it back.
00:24:38
You can okay. Someone did and then also
00:24:41
multiple people have even people who were actually pro the video
00:24:45
or that can't explain that. So Jason Aldean is either racist
00:24:50
or really fucking stupid. Is that kind of what we're
00:24:52
coming up with? Probably stupid.
00:24:54
Well, stupid then. Stupid for not being more aware
00:24:57
of his own. Yeah, because it's probably a
00:24:59
bunch of teams around him that's that.
00:25:00
You know they're doing. That and everything.
00:25:02
And he didn't make the video, I guarantee you, but he should
00:25:05
that put an eye on it before at. Least.
00:25:07
Right. Well, so same with CMT.
00:25:09
They didn't put an eye on it before.
00:25:10
They really. Well, true.
00:25:11
Well, I'm sure they did, but they didn't seen an issue with
00:25:13
it until the outrage, right. But Jason Aldean can, You know,
00:25:16
maybe we can. Maybe he could claim ignorance
00:25:19
and and he's not aware that this article was that or that this
00:25:22
church. Was I'm sure she will.
00:25:23
Courthouse Well, we know that Jason Aldean is ignorant because
00:25:26
of. Other things, other things, but
00:25:27
okay. See, that's what I'm not
00:25:29
familiar with, so if you want to enlighten me, love it.
00:25:31
So he does he have a history of all?
00:25:33
Dean and his family are like ultra conservative, like to the
00:25:39
highest degree like for example his wife was like bullying
00:25:46
trance, not bullying, but she was saying bad things about
00:25:48
trans people online and it kind of like this whole thing where
00:25:51
she was dubbed as like the number one insurrection Barbie.
00:25:55
And then Fox News was on her side, then caught out Maren
00:25:58
Morris, country singer who's very, like pro LGBT.
00:26:02
It's like a whole thing. She's hot.
00:26:04
Maren Morris, right? Thank you for saying that.
00:26:06
Yeah. I just thought I'd.
00:26:08
But it's who I'm thinking of. She.
00:26:09
Yeah. I like her.
00:26:10
She's good. Yeah.
00:26:11
I like her. Yeah.
00:26:12
She's talented. Yes, definitely.
00:26:13
Meg. Thank you.
00:26:15
But also in the video. OK, so Jason Alden released a
00:26:17
statement, like, kind of, after all the backlash.
00:26:18
And it was like all clips from this video are real, but someone
00:26:23
traced a bunch of the clips and they're.
00:26:25
All stock footage, which means it was staged, not real from
00:26:30
riots in other countries such as Germany.
00:26:33
Again, Are you sure? Wait, how can it be staged?
00:26:36
Riots. No.
00:26:37
No, it's like stock footage like they were other other riots
00:26:40
from. Well, that still makes it real.
00:26:42
No, like, no, it's no, I mean it's.
00:26:45
Not his footage, it's. Actors.
00:26:47
Good point, Nick. Acting in a video like do you
00:26:50
know what stock footage is? Yeah, but some of them were from
00:26:53
actual riots, right? That's what I.
00:26:56
Heard in other countries, I guess I could and he didn't
00:26:59
necessarily say in this US town. So like that part where it's
00:27:03
different, Are you saying that some of the videos that you're
00:27:05
seeing have he's like like almost scripted and people are
00:27:09
out there just like like they're like extra extras on a movie?
00:27:12
Like there's one of a dumpster fire, but in New York, right?
00:27:15
But it's stock, but it's like stock footage.
00:27:19
You can find it on the Internet as like stock footage that they.
00:27:22
Just like used, they made it on purpose to be to be that.
00:27:26
Then there's one of like a Molotov cocktail being thrown.
00:27:28
Guess what? Also stock footage that's made
00:27:31
by like actors, The riots and other and other countries that
00:27:34
are being used to stock footage. Those could be real riots.
00:27:37
But that's not happening in like the US That's like another
00:27:40
country's own political. Well, I don't think anybody can
00:27:43
argue that we've had our share, our fair share of riots and and
00:27:47
protests gone wrong and things like that.
00:27:49
And. And a lot of what people are
00:27:50
saying is that and this is what I'm going to get to in a second
00:27:53
after you guys talk and trust me and let you finish everything
00:27:56
you want to say. Don't worry, don't worry.
00:27:58
Take it easy, Antoine. Meg is hard at work researching
00:28:02
over there. But one of the things I was
00:28:04
going to say was that, you know, a lot of the footage regardless
00:28:10
is a bunch of white people doing committing these crimes that
00:28:13
are, that are rioting and that are doing all these things and
00:28:15
in the video. In the video.
00:28:17
And so it's not you know it's not like it's the whole thing is
00:28:20
this big racist thing. It's anyway let me cuz I have a
00:28:25
whole point about it and again, I'm not.
00:28:27
I'm not on one side or the other on this.
00:28:28
I really want to learn from you guys and hear what you think
00:28:31
based on your research and then I'm gonna share you from you
00:28:33
this kind of side and we'll talk about it.
00:28:36
Go ahead. I will also say like there are
00:28:38
like lyrics in the song, like when he says we'll try that in a
00:28:44
small town, see how far you make it down the road.
00:28:48
And that's what they would tell a lot of black people.
00:28:51
And that's sun downtown talk that's like historically
00:28:53
recorded, like sun downtown talk.
00:28:57
So that's kind of, like kind of weird, but I think, I don't
00:29:01
know, Could it be just, I mean, like I said, just like Trey
00:29:07
said, Could he just be ignorant enough to make that a lyric?
00:29:10
Well. It wasn't his lyric it.
00:29:12
Wasn't. Yeah.
00:29:12
Has it come out? Who wrote the song?
00:29:14
Yeah, I mean, I I forget. I mean, has that come out?
00:29:16
Why hasn't that name been thrown around more?
00:29:18
But also given someone like this lady who's like on an NBC, I
00:29:22
think like a talk show as like a cohost, she was like, I'm from
00:29:26
the same small she was like I did Summers, like the same small
00:29:29
town that Jason Albion is from Macon, GA And it is very and it
00:29:32
was very racist. And so it's like you could.
00:29:36
Just because you're not aware doesn't mean that you're not
00:29:38
doing it wrong, OK? And so it's like you could have
00:29:41
bad intentions, but you still have to always on up to your own
00:29:43
actions. Right.
00:29:45
I feel like it wouldn't be that big of a deal if the music video
00:29:49
had come out, because the idea is like, we have camaraderie and
00:29:53
we're gonna stand up for what's right.
00:29:55
In a smaller town. In a small town like we, we
00:29:57
watch everyone's backs. But I feel like as a country
00:30:00
singer, you should take extra care to pay attention to, like
00:30:04
the political climate and what your song could come across as.
00:30:07
And saying like country music because of the history of the
00:30:11
like, where the geography is. Yeah, most.
00:30:13
Country music and country music is like overwhelmingly listened
00:30:18
to by white people. Not to say black people don't
00:30:20
listen to it, but it is overwhelmingly listened to by
00:30:23
white people. And it's like we take care or
00:30:26
like we protect our own. That kind of language.
00:30:29
Just like OK. You can understand why people
00:30:34
are perceiving it in a bad way. And you'd be you'd would it be
00:30:36
the same if a rap song said something like that.
00:30:39
We protect our own. Yeah, but like that's been the
00:30:43
nature of how rap is. And no, I'm just saying in
00:30:46
general though, I'm just saying in general though, that's the
00:30:48
mindset is if you say something like that and you can make an
00:30:51
assumption that you're talking about a certain type of people
00:30:56
because a lot, a lot of white. Then you should listen to RAP.
00:30:59
Well, they do. More so than black people
00:31:00
Country, but. I'll say yes, but here's the
00:31:03
thing And this has been like people want to talk about this
00:31:05
all the time, like the black community as I'm going to just
00:31:10
say in general like as a whole, like is accepting of like other
00:31:16
people and like their cultures and like their different
00:31:18
practices or whatever. So I can say with confidence
00:31:22
that like if for example like. There was like this white one
00:31:28
being jumped by like some like random dude down the street and
00:31:31
like a group of black men saw it.
00:31:32
They would go and intervene and like.
00:31:34
OK, but that's confusing cuz you're mixing gender and I think
00:31:38
a lot of men would stand up if a woman was getting beaten.
00:31:41
You would hope so. I sure, no matter what the race.
00:31:44
Black woman would stand up for the white woman as well.
00:31:46
OK, like, I'm just saying the black people would stand up for
00:31:48
like the white person. If that was happening in like, a
00:31:50
black town, probably like, hey, that's not very Do you think
00:31:52
that's unique to black people? No, I'm not think it's not
00:31:54
unique to black people, but black people aren't like.
00:31:57
Writing song. I mean, I'm gonna say there are
00:32:00
racist people from every group, but I'm not.
00:32:02
But I'm saying engine role, like they're not writing songs about
00:32:05
like, chasing the white folk, right?
00:32:08
Fair enough. But it does.
00:32:09
It does. Just I'm sure there's the
00:32:10
redneck voice. Look, I'd like to, if you'd like
00:32:13
me to, start reciting some Cardi B lyrics again, right?
00:32:17
It's just like with the the Southern the history of Southern
00:32:21
towns like that history coming from.
00:32:24
Country music, which is very popular in southern towns and
00:32:27
always has been, especially even back then when all those things
00:32:30
were happening, like you have to pay more attention as an artist
00:32:38
to that because it's very historically charged.
00:32:42
Whereas like on the other side, black people don't have as much
00:32:46
of the sun downtown for white people.
00:32:47
Even if it does happen, there is it's not a huge thing in
00:32:52
history, right? Okay, Fair enough.
00:32:54
So let me ask you both of you guys and try.
00:32:59
Would it? Do you think of the video hadn't
00:33:01
come out that this would be just overlooked?
00:33:03
Yes, yeah. So the lyrics itself isn't the
00:33:06
issue, it's the connection to the video.
00:33:08
I take a different problem with the lyrics and that it seems
00:33:12
like confusing, cuz to me they're very like pro police and
00:33:19
everything like that, but then this.
00:33:21
This song is sending a different message, like we'll go over the
00:33:25
place's head and we'll take care of it, which seems kind of, like
00:33:28
hypocritical. That's interesting, man.
00:33:30
Yeah, I don't know that's just my.
00:33:32
It's confusing cuz like I mean I finally never thought of it
00:33:36
that. Well, he does literally say
00:33:37
that. So he's like, we back the blue,
00:33:39
but then it's like, if you back them, let them do their job, why
00:33:41
would you? Take violence against these
00:33:43
people. Like, it's just a little weird.
00:33:45
Well, and I'll play devil's advocate.
00:33:47
I mean the defunding and this and the police don't feel they
00:33:51
can do their job and that kind of thing.
00:33:54
So because of the way that you're treating the police,
00:33:56
we'll take it into our hands, but that's another way to look
00:33:59
at it. But that still doesn't make
00:34:00
sense cuz you would be their supporters.
00:34:02
You'd be the ones that would want to let them do their job.
00:34:04
Back off so you think they're still scared to do?
00:34:06
It you can show everyone like this is what they can do,
00:34:09
they're still scared to do. It, yeah.
00:34:10
I have never seen a policeman afraid to like if I want to take
00:34:13
it or arrest. I'm just gonna say that like
00:34:14
that is not happening these days.
00:34:16
I think these days it yeah, I wouldn't be surprised.
00:34:20
I mean, there's a little bit of a hesitance on in a situation.
00:34:23
I just think it's like an interesting message because it's
00:34:26
like, we'll take care of it, but also like, well, you're digging
00:34:29
deep. You're digging deep, Meg.
00:34:31
It's like those signs that people have in their houses and
00:34:33
they're trying to be funny and they're like in here.
00:34:34
Like people in my old house had it and it was like, we don't
00:34:38
call 911, we have guns. And it's like the song talks
00:34:42
about being back the blue and stuff, and it just seems weird
00:34:45
to like back the blue, but like, you're like, I'll do it instead.
00:34:48
I don't need them. Yeah, it's weird.
00:34:51
Yeah. That's interesting because I
00:34:54
don't disagree with the premise. Like hey, we stick together.
00:34:57
I mean if you just read the lyrics, which is what I did at
00:34:59
first when this came out, that's all the stuff I said.
00:35:02
I'm going to just go through the lyrics and I went through them
00:35:05
and I looked and I said all right, well, you know it's
00:35:08
about, it's about it, this whole idea that and again it's anti
00:35:13
stereotypical far left, right where it's anti police, the the
00:35:21
Antifa riots, things like that that they're referring to.
00:35:24
And all of a sudden again, there wasn't anything.
00:35:28
It was like come to our town and we'll take care of ourselves.
00:35:30
And so in the forefront you're going okay.
00:35:33
All right, fine. Whatever, Jay.
00:35:34
Service level. You don't have to like it or
00:35:37
whatever, but it's still OK. It makes sense.
00:35:39
It's a country song. Okay, that's rah rah, small
00:35:42
town. We've got guns.
00:35:44
Whatever. Yeah, but then you tie the video
00:35:47
in. And I think something that's
00:35:50
interesting also is people. Excuse violence when it comes to
00:35:55
like, courtesy of the red, white and blue, which is about
00:35:58
fighting other countries. And we're all, like together,
00:36:01
like we take care of U.S. citizens, like we're going to
00:36:04
fight other countries. That's also inciting violence.
00:36:07
That wasn't like a huge problem. So I think it literally is
00:36:11
because people are perceiving it as like a huge racially charged
00:36:15
video. That's the only thing that I get
00:36:19
upset with the with the violence would be if there was some sort
00:36:22
of racially charged violence. Because it's insinuated, Yeah,
00:36:26
courtesy of the red light and blue is like, we'll put a boot
00:36:28
in your ass. Yeah, well, it's the American
00:36:29
way, but I mean like, look, and I'm gonna go ahead and do it.
00:36:36
Other types of music talks way more about violence than this
00:36:42
song in a direct way. But does it talk about groups of
00:36:45
violence against certain people? Well, I don't like.
00:36:48
I don't know all the lyrics, but I've heard enough to know that
00:36:50
it's pretty intense. I mean, people are shooting each
00:36:53
other because one's on East Coast and one's on the West
00:36:55
Coast, and that's violence. Well, that's a gang violates
00:36:59
violence. I mean, so violent.
00:37:00
But yeah, but there's also like, well, yeah, but then I assume
00:37:04
you're talking about rap. He's actually talking about
00:37:07
jazz. I'm talking about jazz.
00:37:09
No, yeah, I'm talking about. I'm talking about rappers.
00:37:11
Because the only reason I use rap is because they just, people
00:37:15
seem to overlook it because people are scared to say
00:37:18
anything about it. Because I'm assuming because of
00:37:21
walking on egg shells about you don't want to call out a lot of
00:37:24
the black rappers. Is that right or am I being?
00:37:28
Ignorant here. I think a lot of black rappers
00:37:30
talk about specific It's not okay to beat your woman, you.
00:37:35
Absolutely. There's a lot of that and but a
00:37:37
lot of people came out and it was like, OK, fair enough.
00:37:39
Chris Brown is terrible and he's a bad person and he should not
00:37:42
be. Yeah, getting a platform and
00:37:44
Eminem. Also rapped about.
00:37:46
Yeah, but Chris Brown? That girl had a joke.
00:37:48
A lot of people love you. Yeah, like the old people I do
00:37:52
not joke about. I'm sorry, but didn't.
00:37:55
He joked a lot about killing the baby Mama.
00:37:58
A lot. So, yeah, the Eminem.
00:38:00
Yeah, but. That's the difference is like,
00:38:02
it's one person first group. I guess it's like, well, you
00:38:04
heard the last show I referenced Eminem and his, the whole Trump
00:38:08
thing. There's one.
00:38:09
And that was very, very violent and that got overlooked.
00:38:14
The Liberals aligned with it. Eminem.
00:38:16
He's just being himself. The thing is, I feel like it's
00:38:18
hard for you to be like the liberals are cuz who's gonna
00:38:21
stay the same people that are not critiquing this also didn't
00:38:23
critique Eminem. She took a dose of stay in the
00:38:26
Gray and threw it right back in my face.
00:38:28
I love it. I love it because I'm gonna.
00:38:30
Last Cool. No, I did do what I don't want
00:38:33
people to do, which is make an assumption or whatever.
00:38:35
Yeah, but I just. I feel like.
00:38:40
I feel like there are a lot of other things that get overlooked
00:38:44
because of the narratives or because of the agendas.
00:38:47
And then all of a sudden this song, which, yeah, it's not
00:38:50
looking good for now that you guys, you guys have brought up
00:38:53
to light a lot of good stuff tonight.
00:38:56
Although I will say like people like Lizzo got in trouble
00:38:59
because of a word she had in her song that was like.
00:39:02
Lizzo. Yes, Lizzo.
00:39:04
Remember the big lunchbox? There you go.
00:39:08
Did you hear about that? The big lunch?
00:39:10
No, real fast. Antoine PK Subban.
00:39:14
Do you know who that is? My God, he's a black hockey
00:39:16
player, right? And he is now a commentator.
00:39:20
And he made reference to Lizzo. The same Lizzo, yeah, Lizzo and
00:39:24
said these guys tomorrow if they don't show up and they don't
00:39:26
bring their lunches, in fact they need a Lizzo sized lunch
00:39:30
and he said it on the air and he got crushed for it and it's
00:39:34
like. That's why Lindsey Vonn divorced
00:39:36
him. He was with Lindsey Vonn.
00:39:39
They were married. I didn't know that.
00:39:41
I know that she was with Tiger. I don't even know.
00:39:42
I don't think they were. That was like a long time ago.
00:39:44
It was a so long time ago, 2009 or something, yeah.
00:39:47
They were together for a while, and now they're not.
00:39:49
Tiger has a type, doesn't he? Anyway, Tiger, Yeah.
00:39:53
He's also kind of weird and he keeps his car crashes.
00:39:56
A little bit. Like it's kind of a problem.
00:39:59
Yeah, maybe. Maybe you need a car, You need a
00:40:01
tiger. You have enough money?
00:40:02
Get a driver. Get a driver.
00:40:04
Yeah. Anyway, I didn't mean to get off
00:40:07
the topic again. Where was I?
00:40:09
Lizo. Lizo, you were someone.
00:40:11
She was a liberal. She's an artist that typically
00:40:14
lines with the left and the left called her out because she used.
00:40:19
The S word. She didn't know it was a slur,
00:40:22
but in other countries, it's a slur.
00:40:24
The S word of shit. SPAZZ.
00:40:30
S Spaz. It's like a derogatory towards
00:40:32
people, like with mental yes in other countries.
00:40:35
I've never heard that in life, and I guess she didn't know that
00:40:38
either. I'm.
00:40:38
Learning so much from the Ginsei other countries, Yes, that's
00:40:41
like a really offensive slur in other countries.
00:40:44
And so she had to go back. Here, so I can't get in trouble,
00:40:46
right? Lizza did.
00:40:48
So she she had to go and take it out of her song and republish
00:40:52
the song. Wow.
00:40:53
So I think to say that it's only people, I think there are people
00:40:56
on both sides holding their own artists that align with them
00:40:59
accountable. Like, I don't condone, like,
00:41:03
gang violence and violence, right?
00:41:04
Yeah. I'm talking about more racial
00:41:06
violence and things like that, yeah, but I mean that's say that
00:41:09
it's only people. I think there are people on both
00:41:12
sides holding their own artists that align with them
00:41:15
accountable. Like, I don't condone, like,
00:41:19
gang violence and violence, right?
00:41:20
Yeah. I'm talking about more racial
00:41:22
violence and things like that, Yeah, but I mean, that's.
00:41:27
I'm gonna. I'm still baffled by this bad
00:41:28
thing. Like you.
00:41:29
Yeah, my mom called me. My mom called me.
00:41:31
My mom called me. That doesn't make it right.
00:41:33
No, I'm saying grown. My whole life.
00:41:36
My mom was like, you're such a little spat.
00:41:37
Like it was like a yeah and like, I think.
00:41:40
And now you're telling me me just saying this now is
00:41:42
uncomfortable? Well, she got in a lot of
00:41:44
trouble. From No, no, no.
00:41:45
It's interesting you like in general me saying that.
00:41:47
Well, I just don't want you to get in trouble.
00:41:49
From. The bourgeoisie.
00:41:51
From bourgeoisie, that's your neck.
00:41:54
Is this gonna be one of those where they look back 10 years
00:41:56
from now? It might.
00:41:57
You don't know how. Episode 30 with Meg and Antoine
00:42:00
and they'll be like remember when he wouldn't stop saying it?
00:42:03
Should I spell it like Antoine did?
00:42:06
But something I will say violence of any kind.
00:42:09
Let's be honest, not cash money. Not like, not a good form of
00:42:13
expression. Your aggression or frustration.
00:42:15
What is? What violence.
00:42:16
Violence. But what I will say is that.
00:42:19
The trade is Taekwondo. Like when it's violence against
00:42:22
your own people that is more acceptable than violence against
00:42:25
someone else's people. HM HM Whoa, whoa, whoa.
00:42:30
I think the difference is like the songs are black on black
00:42:32
crime. Which actually isn't, I think.
00:42:35
There are no rap songs that are against.
00:42:37
Nobody said there were no Okay. Nobody's saying like in general,
00:42:41
cuz we're. Talking in general, say black on
00:42:42
black crime isn't a thing cuz no one's saying my God, white on
00:42:45
white crime. Yeah, there are actually stats
00:42:48
for that too. But why doesn't we talk about
00:42:50
it? Well, because it's because it
00:42:51
is. It's mass shootings.
00:42:53
It's not quite as that's white on white crime.
00:42:55
I think mashing. Science.
00:42:56
Well, no, they are an issue on. What I'm saying is that this is
00:42:59
nightly and daily and we got to figure it out.
00:43:01
I mean, I feel like most thieves and robbers are probably also
00:43:06
like white people, yeah? Really.
00:43:09
Yeah. Okay.
00:43:10
Well, that. Cuz they're cracked down.
00:43:11
Well, looking for the next, I mean.
00:43:14
I don't know enough. You mean what kind?
00:43:16
Like, I don't know enough, but I mean from the government, like
00:43:18
tax fraud. Yeah, probably a lot of white
00:43:20
people committing. And that is lighter white crime.
00:43:22
That's why on U.S, government crime does not when Barack Obama
00:43:25
was in office. I guess not.
00:43:27
Oh, that was why I'm black. I.
00:43:29
Like it, Meg. Getting in there.
00:43:30
I like it. See.
00:43:31
It's a heavy topic. No, this is great.
00:43:35
You, Trey and I have our popcorn.
00:43:37
We keep going, Long story short. Yeah, go ahead.
00:43:40
And Meg Antoine keeps interrupting.
00:43:42
Sorry, let's take short, I think.
00:43:45
Trey shut up. Over this, we also hear the
00:43:46
loudest voices coming out and talking about each side of
00:43:49
things that upset them. So you're gonna hear the people
00:43:52
that are, like, radical about each side.
00:43:56
You're not gonna hear the people that are like because they're
00:43:59
not gonna say anything. They're gonna move on with their
00:44:00
days. Yeah, Speaking of radical, let
00:44:04
me introduce this idea to you. Have you heard of a man named
00:44:08
Brandon Tatton? That just sounds like a.
00:44:12
Officer Tatum? No.
00:44:14
He is a conservative black man it.
00:44:16
Sounds a conservative, yeah. His name?
00:44:19
Tatum, Conservative fucker. And he's got 3 or
00:44:24
something YouTube subscribers and he went viral back in the
00:44:29
day. I say back in the day, 6-7 years
00:44:31
ago and he gets on there and he does a stick and it's.
00:44:37
I like the guy because I like his personality.
00:44:39
He's very vibrant, he's very and he does make some good points
00:44:42
and so I like to listen, I like to listen to that because if I
00:44:47
listen to some 60 year old white conservative guy in a suit, OK
00:44:52
there by dime a dozen, I can hear that anywhere, right.
00:44:55
And so to hear a black conservative who played ball at
00:45:00
Arizona and. Who's kind of lived you know a
00:45:03
lifestyle that he can step in and say I've been there, done
00:45:06
that. I know what these people are
00:45:08
talking about and I still believe this.
00:45:10
I respect it and I and I at least listen to it.
00:45:12
I'm not saying that he's my guy and whatever, but I listen to
00:45:15
it. And his whole point is that
00:45:17
white people, if you look and you go on and of course you
00:45:21
know, still majority in the country, but if you go on to all
00:45:24
the social media, the white people are the ones that are
00:45:27
pissed at Aldean. And the black people aren't.
00:45:30
I also kind of saw I was. Like, that's what he's claiming
00:45:33
overall. Now I'm obviously some some
00:45:35
aren't. Some aren't.
00:45:36
We did talk about how country is predominantly listened to by
00:45:39
white people. It's from saying but that you
00:45:40
would think they would come out and support, but they're coming
00:45:42
out and but like maybe black people just aren't really
00:45:45
listening to it. Why would they take?
00:45:47
Well, but that's that's what he's saying is that he's playing
00:45:50
it for them. There's a bunch of black people
00:45:52
that finally listened. They don't care.
00:45:53
Some girl actually commented on this.
00:45:55
OK, so I'm gonna be really honest.
00:45:58
There are things called stereotypical crimes and people
00:46:02
think of rioting and like looting and the streets, they're
00:46:05
probably assuming that it's a black person.
00:46:08
And there was a study that talked about this how like there
00:46:11
are like stereo, like white people do, like white collar
00:46:13
black people tend to do like I guess more like a blue collar.
00:46:18
Like you just talked about with the.
00:46:19
Yeah, but it's like. What you call it?
00:46:21
Tax what you tax tax evasion and fraud and all that.
00:46:24
Tax fraud. But it's like.
00:46:26
This you associate them with a stereotype, and there was like
00:46:29
an article done about that. But it says that media's
00:46:31
representation of crime, like the stereotype, is like
00:46:36
drastically overplaying, like what's actually happening.
00:46:40
Could you explain that more? Yeah.
00:46:42
Like, thanks, man. Lydia has sensationalized
00:46:46
certain crimes that are carried out by a certain group of
00:46:49
people. Like, sometimes.
00:46:51
So it's the first thing that pops to your brain.
00:46:53
Yes. Because that's what I was gonna
00:46:54
say. Yeah, cuz that take always makes
00:46:56
me upset when somebody's like how's my you're actually the
00:46:59
racist one for assuming that. But like, that's we as a society
00:47:04
have already decided, like that is the stereotype that's gonna
00:47:08
pop into everyone's head, and everybody knows so.
00:47:10
Why is that? Not because the media has
00:47:12
established it. OK, but fair.
00:47:15
But that's what people are thinking though.
00:47:16
There's there's not one lyric in there, and you can't argue that.
00:47:20
An actual literal lyric in that song that says anything about
00:47:23
race. Yeah, yeah, but it's the it's
00:47:25
the the history behind it. That's.
00:47:27
On the video, on the video, And then also he was saying, I mean,
00:47:30
if that's true, the language could be overlapped with that
00:47:35
and I don't think it's racist, inherently racist to.
00:47:39
Well, the crimes that go ahead make the connection with past
00:47:43
things that happened with like chasing someone out of town, a
00:47:46
Southern town. If you were like chasing someone
00:47:49
out of a small Southern town, like, first thing that's gonna
00:47:53
pop, let me ask is a black person?
00:47:54
Being but let me ask you back, I know this sounds, you know this
00:47:57
is Trey and I's mindset we're very simplistic but but could it
00:48:01
could there be, could it be trying to think about this.
00:48:06
Could it be an idea that he literally was just saying we're
00:48:09
going to chase somebody out of town?
00:48:10
No, and it could, but the music video says otherwise.
00:48:13
OK. OK, there it is.
00:48:14
So it's the video and So what what that's with this gentleman.
00:48:18
Go ahead. I hate that point of view
00:48:20
because people always try and use that to invalidate.
00:48:23
I I do. They use it to invalidate, like
00:48:28
people's argument when it's very obvious, like people, the
00:48:32
society has deemed this to be people's first thought.
00:48:36
It's just the way it is. People are going to think when
00:48:39
you're thinking of like those crimes.
00:48:41
That's just how society has trained people to think.
00:48:45
So when we write about that, it's very easy to insinuate that
00:48:51
whether you're you're racist or not, we all have some kind of
00:48:54
like internalized systemic racism inside of us.
00:48:57
That's just the way life is. We were raised in America.
00:49:00
No, I'm now friends with Antoine.
00:49:02
I have none of. That, yeah, yeah, you have a,
00:49:03
but I have a. Black friend we.
00:49:04
Have a black friend now, but I hate when we all know that's
00:49:07
what it is and they'll be like, so you're actually racist for
00:49:09
thinking that? Like, no, that is a.
00:49:10
And the people who usually say that are the ones that are on
00:49:13
the racist side. Well, I'm gonna say they have
00:49:16
previous. Tendencies that could be viewed
00:49:19
as racist, Yes, they're always the ones.
00:49:20
Well, you're racist for thinking I was actually talking about
00:49:22
them because you insinuated that I was talking about them.
00:49:24
But we're not done or done. We're not dumb, everyone.
00:49:28
I thought she looked at me. Mr. President, I'm thinking I
00:49:33
we're not dumb. I interrupt.
00:49:35
I thought she was going. We're on a It was a Freudian
00:49:37
slip. I was like, what I actually
00:49:39
wanted to say. You know we're not.
00:49:41
Jamal or Lindsay over the phone. He's like hell, yeah man, you
00:49:45
get hello. No, we're not done.
00:49:46
No, we're not dumb. Like, everyone can come to that
00:49:48
conclusion. And if you're going to try and
00:49:52
pretend that that's not, you know what I'm saying?
00:49:56
It's. Insulting.
00:49:56
It's insulting for like people from that side.
00:49:58
It's obviously going to be the first thought that pops up that.
00:50:02
Like, OK, here we go. Black people do certain crimes
00:50:05
because media has showed us that.
00:50:07
Yes. Student Ryan, I am now raising
00:50:10
my hand. Jamal.
00:50:11
Yes, so give me some slack. I just.
00:50:15
I see how fired up you are. And I get it.
00:50:18
But at the same time, let's I'm gonna put it back into context
00:50:22
here, the first verse, and I had it up here the other day for the
00:50:26
other show that talks that specifies there are like 3
00:50:30
crimes that are specifying right.
00:50:31
They're talking about looting and rioting, talking about
00:50:34
pulling a gun on somebody. Yeah.
00:50:37
I don't think any of the lyrics from the song specifically come
00:50:40
out and you're like. Yeah, but people are people who
00:50:44
just hear the song on the streets because playing it for
00:50:47
him and these white people are saying, oh, that's so racist.
00:50:50
Well, why? Because he never actually said
00:50:52
the race. Yeah, because that's what, like
00:50:54
what Antoine said. The media has like embellished
00:50:58
all of these things happening. So that's like our first
00:51:00
thought. We're like systemically racist
00:51:02
as humans, so. In the US, is it bad for these
00:51:05
white people to be mad then? Because.
00:51:07
But there's still men, races. Whether it's typically or not,
00:51:09
we're all racist. OK, so Meg is a doom and gloom,
00:51:13
but putting out well, I mean, we all growing up, I see.
00:51:17
You know what I'm saying? But it's.
00:51:19
I don't think the song inherently was created to be
00:51:21
racist. I don't.
00:51:22
You just think there was some people that kind of snuck some
00:51:24
stuff in maybe. I honestly do think people are
00:51:27
like kind of blowing it out of proportion.
00:51:30
Here's another idea. Somebody commented today some
00:51:32
random person and I will give a shout out.
00:51:35
I don't remember his name but he on social media and he said it
00:51:38
was a Jason Aldean's people set this up as a as a what's working
00:51:44
as a marketing tactic. What do you think about that And
00:51:46
that could be true? I mean, just, hey, this is gonna
00:51:49
cause backlash. And guess what?
00:51:50
He went to #1. He's #1 I just.
00:51:54
Antoine, you say you got the lyrics there.
00:51:55
Is that what you were looking up or no, he's looking up racially
00:51:57
profile. I'm looking, yeah, but also.
00:52:00
We don't need that. When I get off topic, you can
00:52:02
keep going. Yeah, Do we ever get off topic?
00:52:06
Never never. My heated opinion comes less
00:52:10
from like about the song because I honestly I think the video was
00:52:14
the problem, not the song itself.
00:52:16
Cuz like you can believe what you want about guns and backing
00:52:20
the blue and whatever this song altogether wasn't really, I
00:52:24
don't think, racially motivated the video was.
00:52:26
You know what country does such a good job?
00:52:29
It doesn't say the lyrics should be like I'm going to kill you
00:52:33
from a country hater. Yeah, country hater, the lyrics
00:52:35
say. They could say I'm gonna
00:52:37
literally kill you and cut your head off, but it still sounds
00:52:40
like calm. He's like, hey, it just doesn't.
00:52:44
And so I listened to this song and I was like, you get that
00:52:46
vibe where there's nothing wrong here, you know?
00:52:48
Racist ass. I'm a very small.
00:52:50
Town and it. So let's move on from Aldean.
00:52:55
How about that? Because I think you guys made
00:52:57
good points. In fact, it got me thinking,
00:52:59
honestly. I mean, I thought about a little
00:53:01
bit about some of the stuff you said about the video that should
00:53:03
be the whole point is to. Well, that's what we try and do
00:53:07
here, right? Right.
00:53:08
We try and think. So I'm curious, is is like CMT
00:53:11
getting backlash? Is his manager getting backlash?
00:53:14
Is his people getting any of this backlash or JCMT?
00:53:17
He's getting backlash because they pulled it, right.
00:53:19
There's a lot of because they pulled it.
00:53:21
Yeah, a lot of. Well, it's all the like minded
00:53:23
Aldean fans are like how dare you do this, you know?
00:53:26
Cuz you have to give some blame to people around him, right?
00:53:29
And I'm sure they probably are. But he's just the big name,
00:53:33
yeah. I mean, his is the name we see,
00:53:37
yeah. But also, whatever happens to
00:53:38
him, the rest of his team suffers.
00:53:40
That's true. Yeah.
00:53:41
All right. I'm ready to talk a little bit,
00:53:43
Ryan. I'm sorry, Trey Okay.
00:53:46
Go ahead. So I wanted to ask Ant want some
00:53:49
questions. We always want to ask Ant.
00:53:51
I'm kind of curious, when I was on the AFF site there was a lot
00:53:56
of tell everybody what that is Adult Friend Finder.
00:53:59
Not everybody's listened to every show.
00:54:02
So there was, there was men that would reach out to me saying,
00:54:05
hey, they they wanted to pleasure me.
00:54:07
That you know, just I don't have to do anything to them, they
00:54:11
just want to pleasure me. Is that a thing?
00:54:14
As far as they want to, I don't know.
00:54:17
Try to conquer a straight man or if that's a if that's a thing.
00:54:24
I think there's kind of like an over.
00:54:28
Like, is there like a pride thing that said I got this
00:54:30
straight man to to have sex with me or anything like that?
00:54:34
Is that it adds a new color to the.
00:54:35
Red guy and all I got was this lousy shirt?
00:54:37
No. Sorry, Trey has those C shirts
00:54:46
printed out already. Ready to row?
00:54:48
I think there's like kind of like for example like I.
00:54:53
Like super, like masculine, men almost like to the point of
00:54:57
like, toxicity. Well, Mr. JJ, What?
00:55:00
Yeah. That's right.
00:55:01
But, but I think they're but I would prefer if they were also
00:55:08
like gay or bi, like I prefer that they weren't straight.
00:55:11
Cuz well, sure, it makes it difficult.
00:55:13
But there are, like, I think, a lot of gay men who like, want
00:55:16
like a straight man. Which I don't.
00:55:20
There's like a mental thing there.
00:55:22
I think that they just want to be with a man who has been with
00:55:27
a woman. Right.
00:55:30
So yeah. So.
00:55:31
That's about. So did you like super masculine
00:55:34
men? Is there such thing as a gaydar
00:55:37
like I mean? No, I'm just curious because.
00:55:40
Yeah, but mine's broken. Trey seems nervous.
00:55:44
How do you beat Like no? Yeah.
00:55:46
How do you pass that detector? Cuz I mean, if if a guy came up
00:55:50
to you and was kind of yours is so broken.
00:55:53
With you, could you sit there and say okay, I know that he's
00:55:58
he's gay or he's not straight trying to dip his toe in the
00:56:02
pool, you know? I think I've.
00:56:05
I don't know. Well, I'm going to be honest.
00:56:07
You like mine's kind of bully broken.
00:56:10
But also, sometimes men do some like weird shit With me.
00:56:13
I'm like, so do you like what's going on?
00:56:15
This is really broken. Like straight men, this surprise
00:56:18
you when you're like, wait a second.
00:56:20
Yeah, I don't know what's going on here.
00:56:21
Like, yeah, happens all the fucking.
00:56:23
Time be, if you hang out with Trey, I'll.
00:56:26
Confuse the shit out of you. Well, I think it's just like,
00:56:29
then my feelings just like, overly, like nicer to me than
00:56:32
they are to like other people. That's kind of weird.
00:56:34
Like, I don't know, like why you're being so nice to me.
00:56:36
Like what do you? Do you find that people once,
00:56:38
you know, obviously when they know that you're gay, do you
00:56:40
think, do you find that they kind of change men, They kind of
00:56:43
change their tone? Yeah, that's interesting.
00:56:47
I'm complimenting myself. I'm like, well, that was an
00:56:49
interesting question, right? But I think it's all of a
00:56:53
sudden. But it's like, it's it's like a
00:56:55
noticeable difference, like how they treat me.
00:56:57
They like. It's almost like they're trying
00:57:01
to, like, experiment with me, like, but like emotionally.
00:57:05
Please go on. Like, I don't know, I.
00:57:09
Thought yeah, cuz I wanna hear about this.
00:57:10
It's. Like a common experience.
00:57:12
Like, I don't know. Like I would say, I've had some
00:57:15
weird friendships, what I call them like back in high school
00:57:18
called queer baiting. Weird friendships sounds
00:57:21
intriguing. I don't even know if I'd call
00:57:23
that. I had like, this one friend in
00:57:25
high school who, like everyone thought we were dating.
00:57:29
We weren't. This was.
00:57:30
Simply his fault. It was on him.
00:57:33
Like, even like my teacher, like she like she would sit us
00:57:36
together on purpose because she thought that we didn't know what
00:57:37
going on. Like we're friends, I guess.
00:57:41
It's like really sweet of her. Actually, he would say like,
00:57:43
weird shit, like, oh, you're the one person I could never get mad
00:57:47
at, like and like straight guy. He's like, oh, like, I wish we
00:57:51
were married. I'm like, OK, that's kind of
00:57:52
weird. And he's like I said, proclaimed
00:57:55
straight, right? Yeah, yeah.
00:57:57
And just like stuff like that or like.
00:58:00
Just like weird situations like that.
00:58:02
I'm like, OK, what do I? Do probably, I mean probably
00:58:05
some of Trey and I's questions might fall into that category?
00:58:10
Well, there's like friendly and then there's like being too
00:58:14
friendly, like complimenting me like 5 times in the same hour
00:58:19
and like groping my lower back, like, you know, like there's a
00:58:22
there's a difference. There may be some more there,
00:58:24
yeah. Gotcha.
00:58:26
But if I am like. Talking to like a straight guy,
00:58:30
like just as like friends. Of course I do tend to like not
00:58:34
be as friendly. Cuz I don't.
00:58:37
Then they get the wrong. If you're talking to a straight
00:58:39
guy, is the reason. I don't have to get the wrong
00:58:41
idea. Right.
00:58:42
Well, Trey. And that makes sense because.
00:58:45
You thought you were into him, but that's all.
00:58:46
Right, same say I get. I'm assuming with females like,
00:58:49
I'm sure that's just the way men think.
00:58:51
It's like the way you were like. Back I think everyone wants men.
00:58:53
Also think that any woman that is nice to them is like
00:58:56
flirting. Absolutely.
00:58:58
And so that's why is that not. True, though Trey still thinks
00:59:01
the wagers at Hooters the other day was.
00:59:04
All those strippers really loved me.
00:59:07
Yeah, Trey's been in love with 17 strippers.
00:59:09
Right. So, yeah, I was just curious
00:59:11
about a couple of those things especially like I said with
00:59:13
these guys reaching out to me on this site, I mean, it was over
00:59:16
and over and. Over how many would you say?
00:59:18
I mean, it was probably. Me one every other day.
00:59:21
I mean if it's very. Seriously explicit about does he
00:59:24
put up Antoine help me out here. Does he put up Avon?
00:59:27
Well, no, this is on this, obviously.
00:59:29
This is on his site, so there's really one profile picture a
00:59:32
little, you know. There's nothing bio that,
00:59:34
nothing that would have told them.
00:59:36
I mean, what if they just? And that's why I was curious if
00:59:38
this was. Well, I mean in the profile pic,
00:59:41
I don't remember if you really see my earrings.
00:59:44
With earrings, but also. I used to have earrings.
00:59:46
There's no offense to men, but they are kind of weird to just
00:59:50
throw themselves out there sometimes, whether people look
00:59:54
like they would want to or not. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:59:57
Especially in the apps where, yeah, there's no repercussion,
01:00:00
but when I'm. Sure.
01:00:00
Also, I've noticed on certain dating apps there are straight
01:00:06
I'm sorry men or like I am straight, but they'll match with
01:00:09
you and start talking to you. I thought you were straight.
01:00:11
This is really interesting. And I can only assume these guys
01:00:15
have been successful with this, you know.
01:00:17
So I think it's a great tactic. Probably like, yeah.
01:00:19
Well, I was gonna say, what if there are some, whatever you
01:00:22
want to call it, straight men who do this and they're really
01:00:26
kind of deep down, either by or or gay.
01:00:29
And they're like, all right, and they kind of play it off and
01:00:32
it's easy. It's easier to do it on the app.
01:00:34
And be discreet about. It and be discreet.
01:00:36
And then all of a sudden they go, all right and then they kind
01:00:38
of see how they feel about it. And it's almost like they're
01:00:40
working their way in for themselves.
01:00:43
But Angela, I think, I think Trey's question there.
01:00:45
I think there's this assumption that a lot of gay men take.
01:00:52
It's an assumption and you can correct us.
01:00:54
That's what that's. I think why you're asking it is
01:00:56
that there's an assumption that there's some gay men that say,
01:00:59
hey, look, it's a challenge. I think I can get you to come
01:01:02
over here some. Yeah, like I would hate.
01:01:07
You do think it exists? I oh.
01:01:08
Yeah. OK, just.
01:01:09
Like there are like, so Trey's not full of shit.
01:01:11
There are a straight woman who want to have sex with gay men.
01:01:14
Yeah. Really.
01:01:15
Oh no, I know that. So I think it's like.
01:01:17
Meg told me earlier. Oh.
01:01:18
My God, I've had friends like male like gay friends though
01:01:22
that almost like talk about it. Like yeah, I've turned 2 guys
01:01:26
gay from straight like as if it's something they're proud of
01:01:30
so. Wait, wait.
01:01:32
I mean, they're probably. Turning No, no, no.
01:01:34
Gay men oh men right turn other but gay and be like it was me.
01:01:38
I turned it. On the concert, do you think
01:01:40
they turn them gay or just? No, I think they're born gay and
01:01:42
they're just figuring out. But I think some.
01:01:44
They're the ones that made them realize.
01:01:45
Right. So I think I do.
01:01:46
Think they take that as a bad. Answer that I think that
01:01:48
definitely are some. I would hate to be someone like
01:01:51
I would hate for I don't know. I think I would just hate to be
01:01:55
someone's like sexual awakening, cuz that that was like so
01:01:57
anxiety inducing for that person.
01:01:59
So this has never happened to you.
01:02:00
I'm assuming that. And Tom, I figured you would
01:02:02
turn many men, many men gay. I mean, I really would not.
01:02:05
Know, I mean so you haven't had. So I guess the next question is
01:02:09
you haven't had that yet, Well, like not that I know of.
01:02:14
Not that you know, Okay. How many straight men are you
01:02:17
actually friends with, though? Well, two right here, 2.
01:02:21
That's right. I would say, yeah, Meg, all of
01:02:24
these too. I mean like I have friends.
01:02:26
But I mean, in all seriousness, like, just people that you hang
01:02:30
out with and go grab dinner with.
01:02:32
Not a lot, I guess. Like, there's one and then
01:02:36
there's like another one who if I had, like, the energy to put
01:02:40
up with him all day, I would. And then?
01:02:43
He knows exactly who he is. I love you.
01:02:48
I mean, he's. Calling him straight out.
01:02:49
What's his name now? Kidding, Kidding.
01:02:51
No. But like, yeah, I mean, I can
01:02:54
hang out with like straight men, you know, and have a good time.
01:02:58
My boyfriend. Well, as soon as Meg's gone,
01:03:00
you're coming out with us. We're gonna go party you.
01:03:02
Have to go to the roundup saloon.
01:03:04
Oh my God. Roundup.
01:03:05
Saloon. It's on a.
01:03:07
Oh, we don't. I mean, we're just don't say it.
01:03:10
Look, man, we have worldwide listeners here.
01:03:12
They don't know. Where it's gonna say it's in the
01:03:14
like the gay district. Oh, it is.
01:03:15
Yeah, it's like a gay. It's like a gay honky tonk.
01:03:18
Oh. What did I think?
01:03:20
Train? I like it.
01:03:21
We'd fit in beautifully there. I went to the Rose Room once I
01:03:25
heard about the Rose Room. Well, Wednesday night was
01:03:28
straight night, so. So you decided to go?
01:03:31
It was what they called it, so I had a lot of fun.
01:03:34
It was the first time I've ever been to a drag show, which
01:03:37
surprised the shit out of me. When you see a six foot three
01:03:40
man come out in a dress, really just crazy.
01:03:43
But they were funny as shit, you know?
01:03:45
There was guys Hecklinger. And she was like, listen, just
01:03:48
because I have a bigger Dick than you doesn't mean you need
01:03:50
to sit back and. Head for me.
01:03:51
I was like, this is fucking. Awesome, you know, so I had a
01:03:54
lot of fun, but that was my first experience with it too at
01:03:57
a club, so it was pretty cool. Now I am gonna say I was a
01:04:02
little thrown off with the these big muscular dudes sitting up in
01:04:06
some Whitey tidies up on the bar.
01:04:08
That kind of threw me off a little bit, but it was still a
01:04:10
fun night. I stopped wearing white tidies
01:04:11
when I was like 12. Yeah, these guys are wearing
01:04:14
white Okay. Are you supposed to stop?
01:04:16
Anyway. So, Antoine, yeah, how many
01:04:21
times have you seen Barbie the Movie twice And maybe a third
01:04:24
later this week? Coming up, Trey, is that who
01:04:29
you're going to see the Barbie movie?
01:04:31
Maybe? Maybe.
01:04:32
Well, Trey and I would like to go.
01:04:35
I have not seen it, I admit. I know that.
01:04:39
Who is the Barbie? She's hot.
01:04:41
Marco. Robbie.
01:04:41
Yeah, she's hot. She's talented.
01:04:43
And who is the Ken Ryan Gosling? He's Gosling.
01:04:46
Yeah, he's a handsome man. Right.
01:04:48
He is up. Tell him to.
01:04:49
I was like, never. Like, actually, I've tried all
01:04:51
my life to hate him, but he's just so fucking.
01:04:54
Really. Like anybody named Ryan?
01:04:56
Is from. The Did you think he was a good
01:04:58
Ken? He did an amazing job.
01:05:01
Okay good. The backlash on this movie is.
01:05:08
There are two things, the two main things.
01:05:10
The first one is more. I'm gonna do this one first.
01:05:13
This one seems kind of interesting to me and this is
01:05:17
more conspiracy theory type stuff.
01:05:19
Have you heard the two back the two topics here?
01:05:24
I know one's like anti man. The anti man.
01:05:26
We'll get to that. We're anti man on the show.
01:05:31
The other one is the 9 dash line.
01:05:34
Have you heard of what this is? The 9 dashed line is a map of
01:05:39
territories claimed by China in alternate world, not currently S
01:05:46
the South China Sea. So it involves like the
01:05:48
Philippines, Taiwan and the rights to the ocean around
01:05:52
there. And in this movie with that fake
01:05:55
map that she had in the background, I don't know if you
01:05:57
remember that scene, you've seen it 16 times already.
01:06:00
There's a map and on there it actually has where China has.
01:06:05
Use control of all these territories, like Taiwan's like,
01:06:08
excuse me, what? And so there's this whole
01:06:12
conspiracy about whoever wrote the film and directed the film
01:06:16
made it to where they're very, very pro China.
01:06:20
And that's the first of the controversies, if you will.
01:06:24
The second one is, of course, what you just said, which is
01:06:27
this whole. She knows how to.
01:06:29
There's a French phrase in there that was said and it says
01:06:33
basically she knows how to do everything.
01:06:35
He only knows how to fornicate and so there's this idea of
01:06:39
reverse gender roles and how Barbie can do everything.
01:06:43
Ken's basically this dumbass who doesn't do anything and he just
01:06:46
like bangs her and like that's it.
01:06:49
And and I think that that's the the idea is that there's a lot
01:06:52
of people who are going, how dare they come out with this,
01:06:58
you know the reverse gender roles and it's anti man and it's
01:07:02
all this and that. What do you think of that?
01:07:04
Two. You've seen it twice.
01:07:06
Touch grass. Touch what?
01:07:10
Go outside and touch some grass that makes.
01:07:13
Sense. Should we go out right now?
01:07:14
All liberal snowflakes are upset because Barbie in a Barbie movie
01:07:20
has a perfect. That's a good point.
01:07:23
That's. The point Snowflakes.
01:07:25
It is the Barbie movie. That's right, Barbie the movie.
01:07:29
Doll based off a doll like switches gender roles.
01:07:32
They're like God. When did it stop us being able
01:07:36
to watch a movie? Just.
01:07:37
For No, it's a movie. Okay.
01:07:38
Great. Now we.
01:07:39
Have to pick it apart, but yeah, I think that all the backlash is
01:07:45
bullshit. You're a you're a Barbie fan.
01:07:49
You like the movie? I've seen it 20 something.
01:07:51
That's great. Well, but I didn't know if you
01:07:52
were forced to see it. No, I saw it.
01:07:54
Gentleman went just. I saw it out of my own volition
01:07:58
twice. The gentleman that went Bill
01:07:59
wanted to take you to Worth. Bill Hit me up.
01:08:02
He. Said.
01:08:02
We're going to see the Barbie movie.
01:08:04
Bitch. Barbie movie.
01:08:05
Yeah. Anyway, Bridge.
01:08:07
Have a stake in Fort Worth? It does a great job of like
01:08:11
showcasing woman in positions of power, but it also highlights
01:08:16
the struggles, the factual, objective struggles that women
01:08:20
face in society due to the actions of men.
01:08:24
So I don't know why people are upset at that.
01:08:26
Are you upset at Factual? Quite literally, the other big
01:08:30
movie Margot Robbie's in, I'm pretty sure she's in Wolf of
01:08:32
Wall Street is like Naomi. Is that her name?
01:08:35
Was that the Leonardo? Yes, and she quite literally is
01:08:38
just there for sex like it is. People love her and.
01:08:41
That and he's there making all the money.
01:08:42
I don't remember that, but I I think I need to see it.
01:08:46
May have to put. That on, yeah, we put that on
01:08:48
the list. What was I called again?
01:08:49
Great movie Wolf of Wall Street. Got it.
01:08:52
What was Margot Roby's first movie?
01:08:54
Rob, whatever her name is, I don't know, I think.
01:08:57
But they got her popular anyway. I mean, whoop.
01:08:59
Of Wall Street was that was probably what put her around
01:09:02
and. Birds of prey.
01:09:03
I don't know what that is, but it sounds it's like Harley, she
01:09:06
was Harley Quinn in it. Suicide Squad.
01:09:09
That's what it was. She looked hot.
01:09:11
Yeah. So Trey and I, I mean, we've
01:09:13
talked about the fact that if a movie's made for a character
01:09:16
like Okay, there's nothing wrong with it being about that
01:09:18
character and Little Mermaid and this and that, and I've gone off
01:09:22
about it. James Bond and it write a
01:09:25
character for the character. So Barbie is Barbie and so big
01:09:30
shocker. She's the primary focus here and
01:09:33
she's got the power and she does it all.
01:09:35
And Ken's the sidekick. There's what's wrong with that,
01:09:38
right? Are you offended by that tray?
01:09:40
Not at all. OK, so you don't it doesn't
01:09:42
bother you that Ken's kind of a big pussy.
01:09:44
No, I want to find a woman that takes care of me.
01:09:47
I think Ken's got it pretty good.
01:09:49
Yeah. He just bangs.
01:09:51
Or I'm sorry, my team? But what is it, Rails?
01:09:53
What do you guys call it? Rail.
01:09:54
Rail. Slade.
01:09:55
They just slay all day. They.
01:09:58
Slay all day. And I mean it seems like a
01:10:00
pretty good gig to me, don't you think?
01:10:02
I do? What do you guys think?
01:10:04
10 good gig? I think so.
01:10:07
I mean, the movie is like actually really deep and.
01:10:09
So yeah, they both have like a. Both characters have like a lot
01:10:11
of depth. Forgive me, I didn't know Barbie
01:10:13
all good at different levels. It's supposed to be like it's
01:10:15
not a kids movie at all. Oh, it is not a.
01:10:18
Good, because my neither my boys want to see Barbie.
01:10:20
And there's like a real it's you should make them see Barbie.
01:10:23
It's yeah, a lot of people are coming out like crying.
01:10:26
A lot of women. I really.
01:10:27
Yeah. It's.
01:10:28
I'm seeing it Friday. I'm.
01:10:30
I cried eternally. Twice, Yeah.
01:10:32
Interesting. Because it really isn't about
01:10:34
Barbie as much as it's about like gender roles.
01:10:38
I think it quite literally is meant to be all about gender
01:10:42
roles. Okay, But.
01:10:43
And you're Okay with that. You, Meg, you are.
01:10:47
Let me ask you a question. You don't like the idea of
01:10:50
gender roles? Well, that was more of a
01:10:52
statement. But yeah, question form.
01:10:54
No, I don't. Gender roles.
01:10:57
Gender. I don't know if I've ever.
01:10:59
But I mean asked that question. Do you agree with gender roles?
01:11:04
Do you think they're. I mean, do you think gender
01:11:05
roles can be legitimate? Yeah, OK, to an extent.
01:11:09
Women, for the most part, biologically like females, give
01:11:14
birth. OK, well, that's true.
01:11:16
Role of females that are majority of the time women, but
01:11:21
I don't know, I feel like. What about dolls and dancing and
01:11:24
ballerinas versus GI Joes and sports and fighting?
01:11:31
I think. That that's what I think of.
01:11:34
Don't you gender? Gender roles, well, that is more
01:11:36
gender actually what I just brought up with sex, so I don't
01:11:38
know I brought that up, but. No, no, it is.
01:11:41
It is a gender role because you've got women that take care
01:11:44
of the house, that give birth that do that.
01:11:46
Yeah, they. Do, but I'm talking.
01:11:47
More, I think gender roles are fine if you want to fit into
01:11:51
that category. You can fit into that stairs up
01:11:54
in that category, but also think that society needs to be more
01:11:57
accepting of people that don't want to fit into those two
01:11:59
boxes. And that's how I feel.
01:12:01
You're saying if the young, a young boy wants to, you know,
01:12:04
hang out with the. Barbies, yeah.
01:12:05
Why can't he I? Don't know if he can or can, I
01:12:09
just was curious. But if they should be asked.
01:12:12
But should you try and force it? No, I don't think you should
01:12:15
ever really try and force a child away from like playing
01:12:19
with. The natural.
01:12:21
Yeah, like whatever they want to do, right?
01:12:23
It's not causing harm to anyone or themselves.
01:12:26
So you don't think I should? Put GI Joes into my son's hands
01:12:31
and like, forbid him from playing with Barbies.
01:12:34
I don't think those people ever have fond memories of times with
01:12:39
their father when they're like, I don't even want to do that,
01:12:41
And my dad made me. Play Well, let me let me tell
01:12:43
you the other day my son, my 3 year old, as we all met on the
01:12:46
show episode 22 I believe he walked in and he announced to
01:12:51
everybody. He said.
01:12:52
When I grow up and I'm going to be a girl and have boobies.
01:12:56
He said that. He said that?
01:12:57
You can see him saying that, right?
01:13:00
Yeah, absolutely. And again, I was just like,
01:13:03
okay. I mean, I wasn't like.
01:13:05
How dare you? Don't be a dumb ass.
01:13:06
That's so. He's three.
01:13:09
Yeah, I was like, okay, great. If that happens, it happens.
01:13:12
If it doesn't, it doesn't. But I didn't feel the need to.
01:13:16
Put extra superheroes because he also then went on to put his
01:13:19
Cape and his Superman shirt on and go crazy and be be people
01:13:23
up, including Trey. Kids also say things like that
01:13:25
is such a fleeting, passing thought that like, the world
01:13:28
will show him how things are naturally or he will be pushed
01:13:34
one way or the other. But like kids also say like, I
01:13:36
want to be a brick when I grow up, I'm not going to be like you
01:13:38
can't be a Trey. That's stupid.
01:13:42
I think the people that don't like the Barbie movie because
01:13:45
it's anti men. The people that it was meant to
01:13:48
read, yeah. And it just hit him in the face
01:13:50
and they missed the point. I gotta say, I think we
01:13:52
shouldn't take a stay in the great trip to see this move, to
01:13:55
just see them. I'd like to go into on.
01:13:56
Would you be interested? Yeah, by that point it'll be
01:14:00
like the sixth time you've seen it, but.
01:14:02
He'll own the movie by then, yeah, just cuz it's house.
01:14:05
I'm on Blu-ray and. I don't think I've seen a movie
01:14:08
in the theaters in years have. I won't go to the theaters.
01:14:11
Actually when I saw was it Oppenheimer?
01:14:14
With who? With your girlfriend?
01:14:17
Yeah, do enjoy it. I did.
01:14:19
That looks pretty good, no? Is that there's some I love?
01:14:22
I thought the first hour. Who's in?
01:14:24
Cillian Murphy. Is that already pronounced his
01:14:26
name? He's from Peaky Blinders.
01:14:28
Oh yeah, by. Michelle Bates.
01:14:30
Up, dude, the quickie blind boy. There you go.
01:14:33
That. Was so bad.
01:14:35
Yeah, I give you better than it. Yeah.
01:14:37
Sorry. To read on a fan.
01:14:38
Antoine. Like just slow peak hour and a
01:14:40
half? OK, it was an hour and a half
01:14:42
too long. It's the first hour and a half.
01:14:44
I agree with literal video montage, quite literally.
01:14:48
Antoine, you said like a movie guy.
01:14:49
You've seen every movie. Do you need to pause here,
01:14:51
Antoine? No, I can't ship them.
01:14:54
Did you have a membership? Yeah, we'll get there, but it
01:14:56
was like an hour and. A half damn membership was
01:14:58
pretty good, actually, but it was just the first.
01:15:01
It was just so long. Yeah, yeah, it was what, a three
01:15:03
hour movie? But yeah, but the
01:15:05
cinematography? 9:50, the soundtrack?
01:15:08
Good. I liked the plot once.
01:15:11
It got there an hour and a half later, but.
01:15:13
Yeah. I liked the plot.
01:15:15
It happened in real life, yeah. Yeah.
01:15:18
Also, I'd learned about that in AP U.S.
01:15:19
History, so I didn't really need another lesson about it, but
01:15:23
yeah. Antoine had an A in U.S.
01:15:25
history, in case anybody missed that.
01:15:27
Why did I act? I don't remember U.S. history.
01:15:29
I think I might act. A push.
01:15:32
I'm shocked. All right, I'm gonna move
01:15:35
forward from Barbie because, look, Trey and I need to see
01:15:38
this first. Antoine, would you be interested
01:15:40
in going with us? Just let me know.
01:15:42
OK, we're gonna go. That's it.
01:15:44
No more. Well, we grow as men seeing.
01:15:46
The Barbie. No more.
01:15:47
I hope so. No more, No more.
01:15:49
That's all we want to do with. That I am a crier so.
01:15:52
Apparently it's a big boyfriend test.
01:15:55
Really. Girls have been saying like
01:15:56
bring your boyfriend and if he thinks it's stupid.
01:15:58
So should we bring our ladies? Yes, I don't.
01:16:03
Like crying? I don't.
01:16:03
Know if my wife would give. She like Barbie.
01:16:05
Really. Yeah, but I don't think it
01:16:07
really. It has a lot to do with LIKE.
01:16:10
There's like montages of videos of her as a child.
01:16:12
And it's apparently very sad about growing up as a girl in
01:16:17
girlhood, and it makes women feel sad about growing up.
01:16:23
Interesting. There's that aspect.
01:16:26
All right, we're gonna see it. Let's see.
01:16:28
It allegedly. Let's do it.
01:16:29
And then I'll feel more comfortable commenting on it.
01:16:34
Yeah, so. Antoine, I can't get, I can't go
01:16:39
through this show without asking you.
01:16:41
Last time when you were here, we talked a little bit about some
01:16:43
of the dating stories, and I think, I think we've been
01:16:46
hashtag like a Coke and Coke and an ashtray or something or
01:16:50
something similar to that. Now that you've had some time to
01:16:53
think and process how we do things on this show, I was
01:16:58
hoping that you would be able to kind of dig deep and find a
01:17:02
story maybe from dating apps. We're so intrigued.
01:17:05
Tres told some stories about his dating apps.
01:17:07
I had one story and she's asleep in the upstairs room.
01:17:11
And that's my wife. I never got to live through with
01:17:15
the dating app stories. And so I wanna know if you have
01:17:18
any good ones for us, Meg. You too.
01:17:20
I think about yours, Meg. I have one.
01:17:22
Okay. Meg, do you wanna go first?
01:17:24
I can. Mine's really I'm.
01:17:26
Thinking he's thinking. I like that.
01:17:28
Well, I had screenshots. Yeah, you can.
01:17:29
Mine's really. He's got screenshots, that's
01:17:31
what I'm talking about. Yeah, Trey's a pro, so he's used
01:17:35
to screenshots. Meg I mean, it's not like
01:17:38
anything. No, no.
01:17:39
Write home about. Any stories.
01:17:40
But our audience is crazy and they like dating app stories no
01:17:44
matter what. This is OK.
01:17:45
So I went on a date and it started off great and then.
01:17:52
I'm kind. Of curious how?
01:17:55
Yeah, Meg, hold on. I'm assuming it was a swipe or.
01:17:59
Yeah, yeah. It was probably like Bumble or a
01:18:01
Bumble. Holder.
01:18:02
Did you text back and forth? Do you remember?
01:18:03
How often or how long? How long before you actually
01:18:06
met? Probably like a week, Okay, but
01:18:09
like I knew him through his. Through curious, I always kind
01:18:15
of like. Background check through his
01:18:17
Instagram. We went through Instagram and
01:18:19
tagged little and we had some, well, we had some mutual
01:18:24
mutuals. So I was like, OK, he's not
01:18:27
gonna murder me probably. And everything was fine.
01:18:32
It seemed great. And then we went.
01:18:34
He was his apartment and we're gonna watch a movie.
01:18:36
So we went in and he had a picture on his wall.
01:18:39
Oh, this is the first day Meg he went inside the apartment.
01:18:42
Yeah, good for you cuz we had mutuals.
01:18:44
I was like we. Good for you.
01:18:46
We he was a very conservative Christian and I didn't realize
01:18:49
that. What film did he put on?
01:18:52
I see. I don't think we made it that
01:18:53
long. I was like, I think I'm gonna go
01:18:54
home. Oh, oh, you OK?
01:18:55
Let her get to the picture. I'm sorry.
01:18:57
I'm so look. Look.
01:18:59
All right, Jamal. I walk in and like.
01:19:02
I don't care what side you're on, but if you have a picture of
01:19:05
you, like shaking hands with a politician framed on your wall,
01:19:11
that's gonna put up some red flags for me.
01:19:13
Especially when it's Ted Cruz. Yeah, it's him shaking Ted
01:19:18
Cruz's hand. Okay.
01:19:19
Big old cheesy grin on his Ted. And I was like, and he was like,
01:19:23
yeah. And he starts like.
01:19:24
See, You're not a Ted Cruz fan. No.
01:19:28
But also, even if it was somebody, maybe I wouldn't.
01:19:30
I'm joking, I'm. Kind of weird.
01:19:32
Any politician so he. Was that?
01:19:33
On his dating, he was in the legal.
01:19:36
Was that one of his six pictures?
01:19:37
Yeah. He was in the legal field, okay.
01:19:40
So maybe it was like. Yeah.
01:19:42
I don't know. And then we because.
01:19:44
You shook hands with the politician back.
01:19:46
You might put it up right? No.
01:19:47
No, not in my home, Okay. Sitting there like on the wall
01:19:52
framed like, is that like right in that?
01:19:54
And it was like a tiny like on the wall, like it was weird.
01:19:58
I was like. OK, I'm with.
01:19:59
I'm curious, how many pictures did he have in his day besides
01:20:02
him holding a fish? I don't know fish.
01:20:05
He didn't have any. That's one of my.
01:20:06
I have like 6 things that are like absolutely if you're doing
01:20:10
it, I'm going to swipe left and it's no, holding a fish is not
01:20:14
one holding a. Fish No.
01:20:15
What's the fish think, right? So there's a lot of people that
01:20:18
show when they catch a fish, they have it's built for men.
01:20:21
It's a thing like I've. Seen females do it too so.
01:20:23
Well, no, people do. But is it common?
01:20:25
Oh yeah, really. I mean so much that they put it
01:20:27
in their bio. Like what I'm sure she's about
01:20:29
to so mine. I don't put it in my bio, but
01:20:31
like if I see these things, I'm it's like, absolutely no, it's
01:20:36
if there's smoking weed in the pictures, like, fair enough,
01:20:39
there's a time and place for that if you're flicking off the
01:20:41
camera in the pictures. Fair enough.
01:20:42
That's stupid. It's dumb.
01:20:44
Like, grow up. Yeah.
01:20:45
If you're if you make any kind of, like sexual joke or anything
01:20:48
sexual in your profile, it's just just like I'm like, it's
01:20:52
not, it's like classless. I don't know.
01:20:54
I just said I wanted to be the little spin, right?
01:20:56
That's not sexual. OK.
01:20:58
Yeah, like, they're like sexual jokes that men will put in
01:21:00
there. Yeah.
01:21:01
And it's like, I'm not gonna. And then there's like if there's
01:21:06
just a picture of a car as one of their photos.
01:21:10
Yeah, absolutely not. What about the women that post
01:21:11
like the first two? I don't see them.
01:21:13
That's. True.
01:21:14
They've. Got a picture of their dog and
01:21:16
the first two dogs are different though dogs are cute.
01:21:18
Why do you put? Them in your first two or three
01:21:20
pictures, no, before you even see what the.
01:21:22
Car equals Dog. No no no.
01:21:24
Because car guys that go to car meet UPS are either.
01:21:28
Car meet UPS I was talking about, No, no.
01:21:29
But it's those, it's car meet up.
01:21:31
It's those cars. The guys that post the cars are
01:21:34
the ones that have the Mustangs that spend all this time
01:21:37
investing in this car and from experience.
01:21:43
Not enough time for you? No.
01:21:45
They just don't have a lot of aspirations to do other things.
01:21:51
That's it. So they put all the you usually
01:21:53
are. All right.
01:21:54
Fair enough. All right, well, anyways,
01:21:56
there's like, I think that was. And then if it's like a mere
01:21:59
shirtless pic at a gym, that's just.
01:22:02
Hold on, let me go delete. Something trays out.
01:22:04
It's just like, weird. That's all six of trays, because
01:22:06
we. Gotta go delete all of them.
01:22:08
Yeah, and military. Millet Whoa.
01:22:12
Not a fan of Millet? Interesting.
01:22:14
I think when they're on dating apps, a lot of the time like,
01:22:16
something's just like, I wouldn't have a problem if I,
01:22:18
like, met one in real life probably.
01:22:19
What if the poor guy like his wife cheated on while because
01:22:22
I've been like ghosted from a military guy that I talked to
01:22:25
for like 2 months and then scarred.
01:22:27
That's. Yeah, that's fine.
01:22:28
Yeah, fair enough. And it tends to be, I don't
01:22:30
know, it's just like, why don't they focus on that?
01:22:33
Yeah, I got to his apartment and I was like, that's that is
01:22:38
interesting. And then I was like, OK, well, I
01:22:42
don't really know how to exit. So did.
01:22:44
He offer you a beverage or. That's the tough part.
01:22:46
Exiting probably. I don't know I.
01:22:49
It was that quick We got no, no, we sat down.
01:22:51
We were like having conversation and I wanted to, like, pick his
01:22:53
brain about his Christianity. Was he trying to get moved
01:22:57
towards you at all, or was he? No.
01:22:59
Gentleman, was he reading the Bible?
01:23:01
Very. He's very conservative and I
01:23:05
didn't really realize that. And I am in a stage in my life
01:23:08
where, like, I am religious, religious, but like, sometimes
01:23:13
organized religion can scare me. And he starts talking about his
01:23:18
beliefs and then he starts talking about like my body being
01:23:22
a temple and how he needs to respect it.
01:23:24
And the way you start talking about it, Why are you talking
01:23:27
about me like that? I wasn't planning to do anything
01:23:31
with him, but. Yeah, but you also don't need to
01:23:34
be called a temple. No, but it was it was icky.
01:23:36
Like, yeah, yeah, like I was just like, asking about his
01:23:39
things. And I'm like, why are you
01:23:40
talking down to me about what I should be like?
01:23:43
What's? How did you, how did you get out
01:23:45
of there? And I was like, OK, and I was
01:23:47
like, I actually think I have to go.
01:23:50
And was he all kind of? I got that like feeling in my
01:23:53
stomach that is like women. You're like.
01:23:55
Lee, How was the day before the apartment?
01:23:58
It was fine, but they were like little tip offs.
01:24:00
So you did I need to invest? It was fine.
01:24:02
It was good. But I was like, I need to know
01:24:05
more and that's why I went back to you.
01:24:06
Talk to him more. You didn't walk.
01:24:08
You didn't walk in there going. This is amazing.
01:24:10
No, no, no. All of a sudden you were.
01:24:12
I wasn't sold on him. OK?
01:24:13
That's why. Because I if it was a good date,
01:24:15
I would have been like, OK, I'm good to go.
01:24:17
I've got the information I need, but I needed like to.
01:24:20
I wanted to pick his brain about his Christianity.
01:24:23
So on the bad dates is when you go into their apartment, of
01:24:25
course. No, no, no.
01:24:26
It's like the one that I'm like. I need a little more time to
01:24:28
figure out if it's worth my energy coming.
01:24:30
Can I? Spend the night because I still
01:24:32
need some more time. No, I'm not spending that.
01:24:34
There's nothing sexual about it. If I need more time to converse
01:24:39
with him, not necessarily if I'm like, safe Uis.
01:24:43
I don't think I was ever unsafe, but it was just an icky,
01:24:47
condescending feeling. Started moving shit in.
01:24:50
Yeah, I need to learn more. I'm not.
01:24:52
Sure. Can I move my stuff in here?
01:24:54
I. Don't know the vibe, the vibe.
01:24:55
I need to get the more of a vibe.
01:24:58
So Antoine, you look like you're ready to give me a story over
01:25:01
there. Do you have a dating app story
01:25:04
that can top megs? Maybe Megs is hard to top cuz
01:25:08
that's weird. I.
01:25:09
Don't know if it tops this, but it's kinda weird this guy slides
01:25:13
on my GMs and goes. Hold on, hold on, hold on.
01:25:16
He slide into what? In my DMS.
01:25:19
What the fuck does that like on Instagram?
01:25:21
Instagram, okay. Instagram, Okay.
01:25:23
I just didn't know which platform.
01:25:25
I know what I know what PMS are, but what's a DM?
01:25:28
My dating app? DM.
01:25:30
Same thing. Okay.
01:25:31
And he goes. And if I was really in your
01:25:34
stomach, how dark would it be in there?
01:25:41
Everybody. Meg, shut the fuck up.
01:25:44
Say that again, please, Antoine. Slower.
01:25:47
And everybody shut up. So this guy slides in my dating
01:25:50
app DMS and goes. Take your time, Antoine.
01:25:56
Take another sip of your beverage.
01:25:58
If I was really in your stomach, how dark would it be?
01:26:01
Wow, bro. Well, for real question mark,
01:26:04
question mark and I sent back question mark and then he.
01:26:07
Sent question mark. Like, I really wish I could know
01:26:10
what it's like in a strong stomach.
01:26:14
And then I said, oh, then he said, where are you from?
01:26:17
Question mark, exclamation point.
01:26:19
I said I'm calling the authorities.
01:26:21
He said what? But spelled what Wat.
01:26:24
And I said they're on their way to you.
01:26:27
And he said you're digest. You're digesting me if you
01:26:30
farted loud like. If you what?
01:26:35
If you farted loud last part into one, you get through it if.
01:26:39
You farted loud. Will I feel it?
01:26:43
And I sent a very funny meme of Michelle Obama being very
01:26:47
confused. Oh my God.
01:26:48
And then he's Wow. If I'm in your stomach, I will
01:26:52
have to hear it and feel it every time.
01:26:55
Wow. In your stomach, that's and
01:26:58
that's. I was like.
01:26:59
It's not appropriate, right? Right.
01:27:01
Yeah. And then I was like, is that
01:27:03
your king? And he said imagining it, Yeah.
01:27:06
And he said I would be scared in real life if I actually ended up
01:27:11
in a stomach, Especially your powerful.
01:27:13
Stomach. Oh my.
01:27:14
Goodness gracious. I said OK, why I'm king shaming
01:27:19
and then he said is it? He said it's that bad, though.
01:27:23
question mark, question mark, I said.
01:27:26
I mean like I'm not so much king shaming as I am slightly
01:27:28
uncomfortable. I mean, to each their own,
01:27:30
though. Then he said, but what would you
01:27:33
do if I actually somehow ended up in your stomach?
01:27:35
Like if I was shrunken down? Like would you Get Me Out or
01:27:38
just go about your day as I'm being digested?
01:27:41
And I said, I mean, how would I know?
01:27:43
Then he says, like, I guess you would just know somehow, like
01:27:46
your belly would feel more full than usual.
01:27:48
I said, Sir, I think you would simply be digested.
01:27:52
And then he said an acid, right? Like stomach acid would be
01:27:55
burning and I would just have to sit there being squeezed, right?
01:28:01
I said well like you probably have already suffocated by then.
01:28:04
And then he says true, like if you burp it's pretty much over
01:28:07
but I might build the beginning of the acid stinging and burning
01:28:10
my skin all over. I said yeah that would suck for
01:28:12
you. He said it will be even worse if
01:28:16
you decided to work out or is anything LOL, I said or if I was
01:28:19
getting a colonoscopy. My goodness, he said.
01:28:23
Yeah, but that just looks. Sorry, I'm not gonna read that
01:28:27
one. All this other stuff is fine.
01:28:31
Yeah, I mean everything else that went too.
01:28:33
Far I think the abs flexing would really hurt from me, I
01:28:36
said. If he said would you let me fool
01:28:37
your abs while you flex them? They seem way tight and hard
01:28:40
from the outside. And I said that's.
01:28:43
The only thing I've understood so far.
01:28:44
Yeah, me too, I said. Sure.
01:28:46
Hell no, he said. And your butt muscle and pecs, I
01:28:51
said. Then he said.
01:28:53
Well, I can at least buy you food.
01:28:55
Haha. At least I know there will be
01:28:56
food in there being digested powerfully.
01:28:59
And I blocked him. Goodness gracious.
01:29:01
I've never. Trey, I've never heard anything
01:29:04
like. That so this went on for a
01:29:05
while. So this one, was this just
01:29:06
ultimately just you were having fun with this guy at this point?
01:29:09
You. Used to see what I.
01:29:10
Was having fun and so I was, like, genuinely uncomfortable,
01:29:13
yeah. But it was obvious that you were
01:29:15
kind of like. Was it because he was inside
01:29:16
your stomach and making? Your Yeah, I was a bit.
01:29:19
Look, the whole the whole time I I moving around my chair, I was
01:29:22
like didn't know how to feel. He mentioned.
01:29:25
The stomach in there? And I was like, yeah, OK.
01:29:28
I've never heard anything like that in my entire life.
01:29:30
Now that was interesting. I was.
01:29:33
I mean, it was the original. Offer So what happened?
01:29:35
So you blocked that was it. There was a little bit of
01:29:37
conversation. How long did how?
01:29:39
Old was he? I'm just curious. 28 Okay.
01:29:42
How long did the conversation go?
01:29:43
How long was that conversation? Like probably 10.
01:29:46
That was it. It blocked.
01:29:48
Boom. Want and I was like what?
01:29:51
Do you think he was just, like, fucking around?
01:29:52
Or do you think he had an, like he thought maybe you'd be into
01:29:56
that kind of talk? I did not want to find out.
01:29:59
So you blocked him. That was it the last straw.
01:30:01
The rest of it the the previous 10 minutes was fine.
01:30:04
I mean, all of it was very questionable, but I was like,
01:30:08
this is kind of funny, yeah, but it was kind of disturbing.
01:30:11
Very much a red flag. Yeah, it was.
01:30:13
More of it was a giant gantic red flag.
01:30:17
I think the last thing we should probably do tonight guys is
01:30:21
we'll do our awareness of self-awareness segment that Trey
01:30:24
and I do every show. And I think Meg has a really
01:30:27
good idea for this segment. What do you think, Meg?
01:30:31
Go ahead and tell us. Yes.
01:30:35
I'm sorry, You love what? So I love Reddit and I love the.
01:30:36
Reddit. Reddit.
01:30:39
It's like a app to the social media platform.
01:30:42
Got it. I just want to anonymously.
01:30:45
Couldn't talk to other people like groups, forums.
01:30:49
So there's a bunch of different groups and I'm in a couple that
01:30:55
I love and one is called Am I the Asshole?
01:30:58
And basically People. It's called what am I, the
01:31:01
asshole? Am I the asshole?
01:31:02
Yes, they put in their stories anonymously and people vote are
01:31:08
like, am I the asshole or not? And then there's also one from
01:31:14
There's one called off My chest, and it's people that confess
01:31:17
it's crazy they've done, yes. I bet that's interesting.
01:31:20
It is. That's.
01:31:21
Gotta be good too. Yeah.
01:31:22
It's These all sound like they qualify for self-awareness,
01:31:25
don't you think? Trey?
01:31:26
So I have a bunch saved. Look at the Pixa.
01:31:31
Anyone doubts Meg is her dedication.
01:31:35
She can't prepare. More prepared than me.
01:31:38
Okay, we could do. Well, maybe she wasn't over.
01:31:42
Am I the asshole, this one? I think there's a good little
01:31:46
bit. Talk wise, since you have kids.
01:31:49
This one is kind of like about a baby.
01:31:51
Okay, it says. Am I the asshole for not leaving
01:31:53
my mother-in-law alone with my baby?
01:31:56
Mother-in-law, Okay? Go ahead, says my daughter.
01:31:58
Nine Months was born early as a micro preemie and was there for
01:32:01
three months. When we brought her home, my
01:32:03
husband and I were the happiest we could be.
01:32:05
We both came up with rules for family and friends, the main one
01:32:08
being no kissing the baby. We also both agreed that I will
01:32:11
handle the rules and enforcement with the family and he with his,
01:32:16
so if there are any issues it wouldn't.
01:32:19
This baby was born at three months.
01:32:21
No, no, no. Three months early.
01:32:24
Yeah, micro premium. We don't know how early but but
01:32:27
was in the hospital for three months.
01:32:29
Micro premium. Yeah, my family and my
01:32:32
fatherinlaw didn't have any issues with that except my
01:32:34
motherinlaw and one of my brotherinlaw's.
01:32:38
So my motherinlaw and niece came to visit a few months ago and
01:32:40
during the visit she kissed my daughter on the head, looked at
01:32:43
me and covered her mouth and said oops, this is a few days,
01:32:46
this is a few days after my husband laid down the rules to
01:32:49
avoid conflict and not have an attitude.
01:32:51
I brushed it off and say it's OK thinking that it would be the
01:32:54
end. I waited until my husband got
01:32:56
back from work and told him what happened.
01:32:58
He talks to her about it and then things are straightened
01:33:01
out. Fast forward four more days.
01:33:03
The day before they leave she sends me a video compilation
01:33:07
from all the pictures taken while they were here.
01:33:09
Right in the middle of the video is a picture of her kissing my
01:33:11
daughter. I show my husband the video.
01:33:14
At this point they're already on the flight home, but we agree to
01:33:17
address this when they come back next summer.
01:33:20
So Fast forward to yesterday when they're up for the summer.
01:33:23
My husband goes over the rules again, and once again she has an
01:33:26
issue with not being able to kiss her granddaughter.
01:33:28
Later that night she tells my mom how she's going to just kiss
01:33:31
her when I'm not around the next day.
01:33:33
I'm watching her like a hawk and she kept trying to kiss her and
01:33:36
was blowing in her face and all. It's so unhygienic.
01:33:40
It makes my skin crawl. This morning I told my husband
01:33:43
that in light of all of all that has happened, I don't trust her
01:33:46
and she'll never be left alone with our daughter.
01:33:48
He's now upset with me because I'm favoring my mom over his.
01:33:52
Am I the asshole? Whoa.
01:33:54
So how old is the child? Can you repeat that?
01:33:57
Cuz I know it was that first for the next nine months, so it
01:34:01
would have been 12 + 921, is that right?
01:34:07
Yeah, that's right. Almost 2.
01:34:09
So is that. I mean, I do think I'm gonna
01:34:12
have that rule. No kissing my children cuz
01:34:14
herpes. I don't need my child getting
01:34:16
herpes or things. So you think your mother-in-law
01:34:19
would have herpes? Is that what you're saying?
01:34:20
Anyone can have herpes and not have symptoms.
01:34:23
So she's doing some freaky shit on the side.
01:34:25
No, anyone could. I don't think anyone should
01:34:27
kiss. So your mother?
01:34:29
Also just weird. Yeah, why do people adamant
01:34:33
about kissing children? That's true.
01:34:35
Well, I mean, it's so you're loving other ones.
01:34:36
Not just kissing children. It's your grandchild.
01:34:39
It's your kiss, my grandmother. Well, your grandmother is
01:34:42
kissing you in this scenario, not you kissing your
01:34:45
grandmother. Wait.
01:34:46
Are we talking about just on the lips or just anywhere?
01:34:49
Like, why are people so adamant about it?
01:34:50
What about like on the forehead? That's sweet.
01:34:53
I, no, no, I mean, I guess. At all Meg Meg.
01:34:56
It's just like a micro premium you need to be.
01:34:57
All right. Well, for how long do you need
01:34:59
to be careful, I guess is where I was going with that because
01:35:01
they said the next summer she came.
01:35:03
So I mean the baby's obviously a year older at that point.
01:35:06
So I think that it became more of the principal at that point.
01:35:10
The grandmother was just like the mom was like, upset.
01:35:13
So the mom wanted to put her foot down.
01:35:15
Yeah, and grandmother was like I'll do behind her back.
01:35:17
Catch it? So it sounds like both of them
01:35:19
were kind of being assholes. That's also an option.
01:35:21
Everyone's an asshole. Yeah, But I feel like when it
01:35:23
comes to your children, I mean, you're the only one with
01:35:25
children, but when it comes to your children, whatever you say
01:35:28
should go and should respect. You should respect that. 100%
01:35:31
Yeah. Yeah.
01:35:32
So everyone's asshole or? This is what you're talking
01:35:36
about with the Am I an asshole thing?
01:35:37
Yes, this is kind of wild. Yeah, this one's crazier.
01:35:40
Well, I was gonna ask, is it Majority?
01:35:42
Who was the asshole in that last one?
01:35:44
Is it the mother-in-law? The mother in.
01:35:46
Law. Yeah, cuz if you're coming to
01:35:48
stay at her house. Respect the rules.
01:35:50
Respect the rules, yeah. OK.
01:35:52
If you can't tell, it's it's tough.
01:35:54
Yeah. Yeah, obviously you're like I.
01:35:56
Couldn't tell you to try. Don't.
01:35:57
It's easier to say it from like not being part of the family and
01:36:01
not being there. You have another Am I an
01:36:03
asshole? Have plenty, this one says.
01:36:05
Am I an asshole for bringing up my brother's premature birth at
01:36:08
Christmas dinner to get my parents to shut up?
01:36:11
So his brother's OK, here we go. Here we go.
01:36:14
I'm a nurse practitioner and the primary care provider for a lot
01:36:18
of low risk maternity cases. At the practice where I work, I
01:36:21
also work hand in hand with doctors and midwives to create a
01:36:24
healthy maternity, birth and postpartum situation.
01:36:27
My fiance is completing her residency.
01:36:29
We live together and have a few and have for a few years now.
01:36:33
We aren't in any hurry to get married.
01:36:35
We originally had plans to do so a couple years ago, but then we
01:36:39
got really busy for two years. It is driving my very religious
01:36:43
parents crazy that their youngest son is living in sin.
01:36:46
I don't really care. I'm an adult and I do what I
01:36:49
want. We're getting married in June,
01:36:51
so we're visiting my parents for Christmas.
01:36:54
The way it came together this year, everyone is at my parents
01:36:56
house, so that's my folks, my three siblings, myself and
01:37:00
fiance, and seven grandchildren. So 17 people.
01:37:03
At dinner, my mom starts going on about how she is so glad that
01:37:07
we're finally getting married and she won't be embarrassed at
01:37:09
church anymore. My dad says how proud he is of
01:37:13
us three older kids who all either waited to get married
01:37:17
before moving in together or got married right away after moving
01:37:21
in together. That doesn't seem to make sense.
01:37:25
Proud of the oldest kids. Not, not this, this son.
01:37:28
My fiance was getting embarrassed and I was getting
01:37:30
mad over this stupid argument and we had too many that we had
01:37:33
too many times. And this family dinner was the
01:37:36
last straw. I had asked them repeatedly to
01:37:38
just accept that they cannot control how I live my life.
01:37:41
I refuse to stay with them when I visit.
01:37:44
So I come alone or I stay in hotels.
01:37:47
So I started talking about a premature baby I had been
01:37:51
reading about. It was almost three months
01:37:52
premature and weighed 1.6 pounds.
01:37:54
It was super strong and healthy for being so little and in the
01:37:58
NICU had high hopes for the baby doing well.
01:38:00
My mom and dad both got deer and headlight looks on their face.
01:38:04
Too bad. Should have, should have not
01:38:07
fucked around with my fiance's feeling.
01:38:09
And found out. Yeah.
01:38:10
So I asked about my oldest brother.
01:38:12
He was born almost four months premature.
01:38:14
Is there a chance that we could check out the family album where
01:38:18
we keep all the records of family births and stuff?
01:38:20
I already know my brother was over £9 and almost 23 inches
01:38:24
long when he was born. My grandmother told me all about
01:38:26
it the first time my parents tried to shame me.
01:38:28
The subject got changed very fast.
01:38:30
After supper my parents told me that I should not try to
01:38:32
embarrass them with private things that are not my concern.
01:38:35
I told them that if I heard anything about my living
01:38:37
arrangements ever again the rest of my life I would make sure to
01:38:40
bring up the fact that my mother was in her second trimester when
01:38:43
they got married. My parents are mad at me for
01:38:45
telling them how to behave in their own home, but my fiance is
01:38:50
happy that they seem to be off the subject for good.
01:38:53
Am I the asshole? Not at all.
01:38:57
You. Think that's fucking awesome?
01:39:00
What do you think? I think not the asshole, but
01:39:04
also that's kind of like, that's kind of mean.
01:39:08
You know what? No, I think not the asshole.
01:39:10
I'm not an asshole. Yeah, do not.
01:39:12
Criticize your child if you did worse.
01:39:17
Right. Like, give it a break.
01:39:20
Yeah, Yeah. I think it's only smart to live
01:39:23
with each other for a little bit too, to figure out if you're
01:39:24
even gonna be compatible exactly.
01:39:26
So, I mean, Meg's still living with that last guy that she
01:39:30
talked about on that, still figuring out what the Hell's
01:39:33
going on. He's.
01:39:34
Still investigating. Yeah, investigating.
01:39:36
He's whereabouts. It's been three years now.
01:39:38
Should we have him on the? Show Yes, he's getting married
01:39:42
and she's still living at his apartment, so I just need to
01:39:44
make sure I need to figure it out.
01:39:47
It's over background, those babies in three videos, is it?
01:39:50
It's a little. Bubbles, cuz you so yes.
01:39:53
Haven't changed it so that was from the.
01:39:56
The last one I have is not. OK, it's not.
01:40:00
Am I the asshole? It's not but.
01:40:01
It's about boobs. It's similar.
01:40:04
It's from 2:00. Hot takes no.
01:40:05
They're edge of the tray. His eyes are wide.
01:40:07
It's go. It's from 2 hot takes and two
01:40:11
hot takes. Basically is a podcast and
01:40:14
people post like. Anything they want for the girl
01:40:17
to read on her podcast and talk about I should.
01:40:21
Try that sometimes. So it says I21 female used to
01:40:24
work at summer camp. We used to work as a summer camp
01:40:26
counselor. This happened when I was around
01:40:28
16, I believe. I was talking with five kids
01:40:32
huddled around me, one of whom was sitting slightly above my
01:40:34
shoulder up on the playground. Oh wait, I forgot to read the
01:40:38
title. Wait, did I read it?
01:40:40
I got to start out. It's called I Should Have Kid My
01:40:43
boobs and gaslit him after. I showed a.
01:40:45
What? I showed a kid my boos and gas
01:40:48
lit him after it says yes. So kid above her, they're all
01:40:56
talking. She goes to look something up on
01:40:57
her phone. She doesn't remember what it is.
01:41:00
The night before I'd been sending nudes, parentheses.
01:41:04
I don't do that anymore and must have saved a couple.
01:41:06
I was running late for work the next morning and guess I didn't
01:41:08
have time to even open my phone because I did open it to look up
01:41:11
the photo for the kids. The next thing I knew, I was
01:41:13
looking at a picture of my boobs.
01:41:15
No bra or anything. I quickly turned off my phone,
01:41:18
but I guess not quick enough because the boy sitting above me
01:41:20
on the playground about nine years old goes Oh my God, I just
01:41:24
saw. I just saw a picture of some
01:41:27
girl's boobs on your phone, then proceeded to be like.
01:41:31
Then I proceeded to be like what?
01:41:33
Why would you say something like that?
01:41:34
That's inappropriate? Hoping no coworkers would be
01:41:38
close by. He kept bringing it up for a few
01:41:41
more times throughout the day, talking about how I had a
01:41:43
picture of boobs on my phone and to get him to be quiet.
01:41:46
I told him things like do I need to tell your mom you're talking
01:41:49
about inappropriate things at camp?
01:41:51
I don't know what you think you saw, but that on my phone that
01:41:55
never happened. I still think about it every so
01:41:57
often and wonder if the boy remembers it too.
01:41:59
I was 16 and stupid and worried about getting in trouble at
01:42:02
work. Not to mention I live in the US
01:42:04
where I could have been charged with distributing child porn.
01:42:07
But still, should I have handled this differently?
01:42:10
And then there's an edit, she says.
01:42:12
Edit. It's not like I wanted something
01:42:13
to come out of this with a literal child.
01:42:16
It wasn't done purposely or out of malicious intent.
01:42:19
I honest to God, had no idea I saw that picture pulled up.
01:42:22
It wasn't an overnight summer camp.
01:42:24
I was in the privacy of my own home when I took those photos.
01:42:27
And to any 16 year olds reading this, don't send nudes.
01:42:32
So. What's?
01:42:35
Take Yeah, What do you think? Well, I don't wanna see 16 year
01:42:39
old nudes either. I mean, yeah, I'm afraid to say.
01:42:43
That's so unfortunate. Yeah, for the girl.
01:42:46
What are the odds she would open her phone and a kid's like, over
01:42:49
her shoulder, like looking at it?
01:42:51
I don't know what to say that that's a speechless story.
01:42:54
That is a I mean, really it is. I'm like that.
01:42:58
That sucks. Yeah, I can imagine.
01:43:00
Be more self aware. I would just say, like, but why
01:43:04
was he looking at her phone? Why was he being so nosy?
01:43:06
Yeah. So there's the cat.
01:43:08
Yeah. Yeah, yeah, be more self aware.
01:43:11
That's true, yeah. Self aware self-awareness.
01:43:13
That is unfortunate though, but also though I will say, if
01:43:17
you're taking nudes, you must take the proper precautions to
01:43:21
make sure that no one else sees them so.
01:43:26
Nobody to the age of 18 should. Yes.
01:43:29
Because that's child pornography.
01:43:31
So and don't. Thank you, Meg.
01:43:33
Highly illegal. Which is bad.
01:43:35
It's legal to take pictures of yourself as a child.
01:43:38
Is it really? Yeah, That's like creating child
01:43:40
pornography. You can get in trouble for that.
01:43:42
Cray, Stop sending pictures. Those are good.
01:43:48
I like that. I like kind of like the Are you
01:43:50
an asshole? And overall, and I know, yeah.
01:43:53
There's some crazy ones. I I saw one that was like off my
01:43:57
chest and this guy. Had to.
01:44:02
His wife needed a kidney so he went and got tested to see if
01:44:05
they had the same like if they were compatible and then the DNA
01:44:08
came back and they were like, you guys are really similar in
01:44:11
DNA and they are half siblings. They were married with four
01:44:16
children. Half siblings.
01:44:19
And he was like, I don't know what to do, Like I'm obviously
01:44:21
going to give her my kidney and we have four children, They're
01:44:24
perfect genetically. Like nothing's wrong with them I
01:44:27
guess. He said.
01:44:29
So they were both adopted. As well say he didn't figure
01:44:31
this out in the family. No, they were both adopted and I
01:44:34
think they found out they had the same like father, but both
01:44:37
the father was like not in either of their lives.
01:44:39
So they didn't know. And so, like, he was like, what
01:44:42
should I do and that. They've been married again.
01:44:45
I'm sorry. I don't know, but it's got to be
01:44:47
a while. They had four kids.
01:44:48
Yeah, that's right. You said four kids.
01:44:49
So yeah, that's a wow. So, like, wow, I think he said.
01:44:52
I'm going to tell my wife, but like he planned on not telling.
01:44:55
Please tell me you remember the state.
01:44:57
I don't Georgia or Florida. Right.
01:45:00
Maybe they should start doing like DNA.
01:45:01
Trey has a thing. 23 Andme Yeah. But that's like wild.
01:45:06
That's crazy. What about the vasectomy 1?
01:45:08
No, but that one was bad, too. This one guy was like, my wife
01:45:12
wanted me to get a vasectomy. After our first child, I wanted
01:45:14
four. She wanted one and more.
01:45:16
And he was like, she told me I needed to get a vasectomy.
01:45:20
You wanted four. Did they not talk about this
01:45:22
before? Yeah, see, I don't know.
01:45:23
That's anyway. He said he went and got one and
01:45:28
he didn't. And I guess it worked.
01:45:30
It was fine for like 4 years. And then she got pregnant and he
01:45:34
was like oh, it must have reversed itself.
01:45:36
And she's like, I'm gonna sue the hospital and now he's like,
01:45:41
I don't know what to do because like.
01:45:44
She's gonna go and they won't have any record of me being
01:45:46
there. I think that's grounds for
01:45:48
divorce. That is absolutely.
01:45:50
I mean, that's like not contentually getting her
01:45:52
pregnant. Yeah, that is actually like,
01:45:54
yeah, somehow, right? Yeah, he's at the hospital.
01:45:56
He's like, I don't, this is bullshit.
01:45:58
Like I. Mean you lost my.
01:46:00
Files. Who'd you Who have you been
01:46:01
sleeping with? Cuz I can't exactly.
01:46:03
Kids, you know? Yeah.
01:46:04
Why are you pregnant? And yeah, you can turn this
01:46:07
whole thing around, right? Until the baby comes out.
01:46:09
Well, right. Well, wait, How do you know?
01:46:12
Paternity test. Well, what do you get?
01:46:16
Scientific. Yeah, you'd.
01:46:18
Be able to tell it was his? We don't use logic.
01:46:20
Yeah, we're, yeah. And that's how you end up
01:46:21
marrying your half siblings. We're all about this.
01:46:23
You don't test for the, it's. Crazy right there.
01:46:26
That is like it That sucks. Like that's the category that
01:46:30
you do if you found out like 10 years into a marriage, you ended
01:46:34
up marrying your, I mean. I would be like that sucks well.
01:46:38
Right, but the sex is amazing. So.
01:46:41
I think you'd have to just stay together and not tell anyone.
01:46:46
I couldn't. I mean, they've already had the
01:46:45
four children. How do you not?
01:46:47
I mean, it never comes up. It would never uncomfortable in
01:46:51
the intimate moment. I'd be like.
01:46:53
But like, OK, they never knew each other as siblings.
01:46:56
Yeah, but I'd still. Yeah, but like are.
01:46:58
You gonna separate and put the like the children through that
01:47:01
when you have a perfectly great, I don't know, Look, I don't even
01:47:05
wanna think about that, Meg. And it.
01:47:08
Fits in the But every time every time I railed according to you
01:47:11
guys, my wife, I'd be like okay. I think it's time Trace falling
01:47:18
asleep. We had a big variety of topics
01:47:25
tonight, and I think that Antoine and Meg have proven
01:47:29
they're worthy, more than worthy of overdoing what we do on this
01:47:37
show and we appreciate them being here.
01:47:39
Absolutely. And Meg, we wish you all the
01:47:43
best at law school. Thank you.
01:47:46
Hopefully you take your views and opinions and the things that
01:47:52
you've established and you apply it in life.
01:47:55
Do we get a friend's discount? I was gonna say Trainee's an
01:47:58
attorney like. What if I'm like a malpractice?
01:48:02
Well, what are you? What are you going into can?
01:48:04
You go into law. You just go into law.
01:48:07
The bars. You don't know what you're doing
01:48:08
yet? No.
01:48:09
Do you have a preference? Well, I have an undergrad
01:48:12
degree. I'm not gonna sell it.
01:48:14
Let's not. You know what, Trey?
01:48:15
Shut the fuck. Okay.
01:48:17
Yeah, Meg doesn't want to share with us.
01:48:19
I just. Ask if we get a friend in.
01:48:21
No. Basically what she's saying is
01:48:23
that no you. No friend is no.
01:48:25
I have some debt to pay off. So we wish you luck up there,
01:48:29
way up in the north and that's way up north to us.
01:48:34
Antoine, you are remaining here for for now.
01:48:37
Yes, I'll be going to. Trey.
01:48:40
To school again here. Yes, cool.
01:48:43
Where we are in this house and where we are in this house.
01:48:47
Trey, what do you think of if Meg doesn't throw a hissy?
01:48:52
Do you think we should bring into one back?
01:48:54
I don't care if she does though, in hissy I'll sue, I just
01:48:57
snorted. This Poor hissy.
01:48:58
Around you'll sue I'll. Take up legal action.
01:49:01
What do you think? Bring Antoine back.
01:49:02
Antoine's welcome anytime. You think so, right?
01:49:05
Hang out. Antoine, will you come back?
01:49:06
If you'll have me, we will have you.
01:49:08
We enjoy every time you're here and Meg as well, so I can't
01:49:14
think of a better way to exit out tonight, but I think Antoine
01:49:18
might have one. Well, I just want to remind
01:49:24
everyone to make sure your thoughts are intrusive, your ass
01:49:29
is protrusive and that you're trans inclusive.
01:49:32
And now everyone have a nice night.
01:49:35
Is there anything else right? I can't.
01:49:37
Yeah, I think that might be later.
01:49:40
Sounds like you. Yeah.
01:49:41
All right, bye. Love you guys.
01:49:43
Later. Toodles do you have?
01:50:04
How do I know if my ass is petrusive?
01:50:08
And are we going to wear pink outfits for the Barbie movie?
01:50:14
Let's hope you would ask.